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Are you cold to cold people?

Say you used to care about someone but they reciprocate your feelings by being aloof and indifferent without a reason. Excuse me b*tch, but if you're cold then I will be icy and arctic
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It's an automatic defense mechanism response for me. I know it and I can't seem to change it for now.
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@44604,Aidolovemostofyourthoughts] Same here. Unless it was someone I loved with all my heart, like family atm, then I would make no further effort. Tit for tat.
[@509132,Asmae] Is it tit for tat or is it you protecting yourself from getting hurt with where their coldness could lead or could mean? For me, its a self protection. And it doesn't happen with the people I feel generally safe and established with.
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@44604,Aidolovemostofyourthoughts] I think both. Sometimes giving people a taste of their own medicine can help them see how wrong they are. Otherwise they wouldn't give a damn. And I agree, on a deeper level, it's a matter of self-protection.
DeluxedEdition · 22-25, F
I'm very cold until i get to know people because i generally don't trust people
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@25801,DeluxedEdition] I can relate to some extent
DeluxedEdition · 22-25, F
[@509132,Asmae] you never know what people intentions are
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@25801,DeluxedEdition] That's true
Rooster · M
No, I just ignore them and cut them out of my life. Don't have time for that crap!
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@527571,Rooster] Sounds about right
MilitantIrishman · 26-30, M
[@527571,Rooster] same here. I have no time for games.
Rooster · M
[@8731,MilitantIrishman] Exactly!!!
There is only one person who can be cold on me. Because I know she will again be warm. I can tolerate her however she is to me.
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@1158409,littlepuppywantanewlife] I think it's because you love her
[@509132,Asmae] Yes I love her alot.
PatheticZombieClown · 46-50, M
Sometimes, somwtimes not. Whatever annoys them most.
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@961154,PatheticZombieClown] I approve 😈
I can become very cold if needed.
Elegy · 41-45
I can be but I will just go away from them in general.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Being distant kinda qualifies as being cold to me [@4300,Elegy]
TurtlePink · 18-21, F
I used to be but not anymore
DavidScott · 51-55, M
sometimes
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@429468,ragingfire]


This guy knows it best
ragingfire · 31-35, M
[@509132,Asmae]
AnthroKenji · 31-35, M
If they decide to be cold then I’ll go contact frostbite. If I care and you don’t want it even detest it so be it. Not friends anymore.
I don't think it's a good idea if I act cold. 🙂
Nanori · 26-30, F
If that happens they're instantly dead to me
RedPowerRanger · 31-35, M
I treat people how they treat me.
TheFragile · 41-45, F
Sometimes
I don't waste warm feelings on those that are cold towards me
Not always, more often I'm cold to rude and snappish people.
If it went that far that I cared about someone I would ask them what did I do.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Tbh, nowadays, I only care about family. The rest can go bang their head against a wall [@472983,CrazyMusicLover]
[@509132,Asmae] I barely know anyone outside my family these days anyway. 😅
ravenhill · 41-45, MVIP
sometimes it is best to just walk away from those types.
Asmae · 31-35, F
Walking away is a form of being cold. You’re not emotionally available for them [@1201332,ravenhill]
BluntSm0ker · 26-30, M
Next time use, Icy Siberian cold..smh
Asmae · 31-35, F
[@415169,BluntSm0ker] As you wish
BluntSm0ker · 26-30, M
[@509132,Asmae]

That's better 👍
Gaiia · F
Haha you're very passionate to be cold. It sounds more like mad
HauntedWitch · 56-60, F
Maybe they have a reason and are unable/unwilling to share that at the moment. If people are unexpectedly cold to me, I will usually back off and try to respect their boundaries. I don't like going places where I don't feel welcome.
Gaiia · F
I've had to with some people, when I truly stoped caring about them. Like literally they disappeared for me in my mind.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I wouldn’t be cold but I’m not gonna go out of my way to make convo.

 
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