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Do you ever feel like no one ever remembers who you are?

I'm really good with names and faces so I remember most of the people I meet, but I don't think it's mutual. Certainly doesn't seem that way. 😅 I must not leave much of an impression.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
i’m super bad with names cos of my memory but i’ll usually remember unique things about people even if i only met them once or twice. i’ve always felt like i didn’t leave much impression on people i meet cos if i’m not there they don’t miss me. but if i am there they just kinda use me when they can but as soon as i’m gone it’s like i never existed😕
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@poisonouscupcake us being cute puppies feels right. your leash is purple. this is actually us
Coppercoil · M
@poisonouscupcake nothing could be more inaccurate. How are we going to fix this?
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@Coppercoil i could try n become a narcissist but that seems like a lot of work for me😞
BlueVeins · 22-25
I'm like the opposite 😶
SW-User
Sometimes yeah, but then again I pester everyone to death, so I make sure no one forgets me😂
I couldn't forget about you though, I remember what you look like and what you sound like, and your name, even if we dont talk a lot.
You always give off a cold impression but you're actually the opposite on the phone.🤔
SW-User
@SW-User 😩 everyone thinks I'm a jerk
SW-User
@SW-User You don't come off as a jerk to me, I used to think you didnt like me or something cause you seem very serious sometimes. You remind me of an old friend I used to have who was very shy and sweet, even your voice kind of is similar to hers😯
SW-User
@SW-User i'm actually very goofy i just don't act that way because i don't want people to think i'm stupid, even if it's true 😔 lol
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
I'm actually terrible at faces, especially if I see someone out of context - for example, if I k ew you from the gym in workout clothes and ponytail, and saw you dressed nicely at a restaurant, it might not register who you are. So it might be not that you don't make much of an impression, but rather that you're meeting people like me who aren't all that good with faces, lol.
SW-User
Are you good with names even when they're from diverse cultures? 👀
Please teach me this skill!

I'm struggling here because where I live we have people from all around the world and almost everytime I meet someone new, I have to write their name on a note and google how to pronounce it! And then I still forget it! 😩 This is so hard!
SW-User
@SW-User yeah, i just have a really good memory for that sort of thing. i don't know if i could teach it. 😅
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I’m terrible with names and faces but I also don’t want to be remembered most of the time cause I feel guilty if someone remembers who I am but I don’t remember them
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
I've always felt invisible despite knowing others.
SW-User
I'm awful with names, i can never remember new people's names..
AllelujahHaptism · 36-40, M
i doubt it helps but, i remember you
SW-User
Yes but that’s how I intended it to be.
Kinevi1 ·
I believe most people remember me. Even if they hadn't seen me before i've gotten, "You sound like someone I knew, or you look like someone i've met".
SW-User
@Kinevi1 Maybe you've just got one of those faces.
Kinevi1 ·
@SW-User Mayhaps.
SW-User
Depends on the mentality or nature of the person who I meet. I have felt appreciated and discriminated against ~ can’t please everyone 🥳
Numberz · F
Kinda. I just know no one remembers me. After a day its like I clear data and start over as a new person.
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SW-User
Doesn't really bother me
Yes, like always
SW-User
Often, yes
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
What's my name again? :)

 
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