Why is being a girl so hard ;-;

When you don’t put makeup and dress up and shit people be like: are you a girl???? You’re outside right now at least dress up well and put some makeup...etc etc
But when I do that, people be like: so fake. Probably going out there to bang guys. probably super ugly underneath all that how to do men get tricked by her...etc etc

;-; why is being a girl so hard T_T