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curiosi · 61-69, F
Narcissists do that so they have a way to control you. Avoid him as best you can.
SW-User
They’re a bit too interested in you yeah
novembermoon · 51-55
I'd feel very very uncomfortable. Once an obnoxious school leader asked me if I was going to the same place for my year end holiday. She explained she searched it up and I seem to always head to the same place. In my mind, I was like 'what freaking bizness is that to you?" There'll always be these kind of people.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@novembermoon I agree and there's nothing we can do about it. The only thing we can do is avoid them and keep to ourselves.
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
How is your surname unique? Isn't it the same as your dad's surname?
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HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 Unique means there is only one and no other. You just said there were three of you, you, your dad and some random guy.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@HairbrushDiva You're right
HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F
@Beatbox34 I know I am. I knew what the word "unique" meant when I was in junior school.
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
I've had a similar experience; people asking if I didn't find my current role a come down after my previous jobs. I couldn't understand how they knew about my past, until I realised that they must have googled me.
Nayla · 51-55, F
ok that's creepy stalker shit going on.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Nayla Now that's the problem. The thing is I'm different in this entire office.
I choose to do my work and leave asap when my time is done. I don't engage in the gossip and go about talking trash about others while they live on that.
It's a really weird place to work. In short, they all kiss asses and I can't do that.
I choose to do my work and leave asap when my time is done. I don't engage in the gossip and go about talking trash about others while they live on that.
It's a really weird place to work. In short, they all kiss asses and I can't do that.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
that's why you should never give your last name.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
@Beatbox34 is he the Manager?
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@FreestyleArt Not exactly but he does deal with all the employee personnel data.
FreestyleArt · 31-35, M
@Beatbox34 ah I see
smiler2012 · 56-60
beatbox depends if you want other people to do this and you are happy about it but this day and age things about you are up to scrutny
BlondilyOld · F
Very creepy. Maybe tell him it made you feel uncomfortable and to not look stuff up about you anymore.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@BlondilyOld I ended up telling him to mind his business. It was weird tbh.
SW-User
It’s a little odd. Perhaps they really like you want to know more about you.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@SW-User That's understandable.
I mean I was talking to another coworker and he had hinted it out to me that the people in this office were more interested in a person's private life. This makes more sense now as that guy knows everything as I did state it when I joined the place of work.
What he did was dig a little more about me.
I mean I was talking to another coworker and he had hinted it out to me that the people in this office were more interested in a person's private life. This makes more sense now as that guy knows everything as I did state it when I joined the place of work.
What he did was dig a little more about me.
Magenta · F
Yes, it's creepy and inappropriate.
I could tell stories, but I won't.
I could tell stories, but I won't.
summersong · F
Yeah that’s weird.
revenant · F
O.o
bijouxbroussard · F
Yes, that level of interest would make me uncomfortable. I’d want to know their motives. 🙁
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@bijouxbroussard He won't be able to access a lot but he did access my dad's case files as it was put up in court.