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Are you still holding on to something/someone you know can never happen?

SW-User
Always. There's always a teeny tiny bit of hope that wont go.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User Yeah. But is it really there or just what we want to see?
SW-User
@Tomorrow It doesnt matter, either way. We all need a fantasy.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User Agreed. But these days I like my fantasies to be nameless and faceless with no meaning. It is easier on my heart.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Yes. I wrote a stage play, and I still want to see it produced and performed on stage. From what I understand, that is simply not possible. But it's a fun little comedy and I still cling to the idea that, with prayer and some luck maybe it could be produced.

The title of my play is:

If I Told You That I'd Have To Kill You

It's a romantic comedy about Area 51, UFOs and high strangeness.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@greenmountaingal It sounds fascinating! Surely a little local theater would do it! I will hope for you too!!
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Tomorrow I am considering submitting it to a local theatre. But I know it's hard to get any play produced. And because of my unfortunate background (see my Featured story under my Profile), I've been told there is no way I can get a play produced. But there are times I know I have to try, even I spite of threats (my mother's people).
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@greenmountaingal Never give up on your dream. ❤️
rottenrobi · 56-60, F
Yes, I hold on to a little bit. He meant that much to me.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@rottenrobi. That I get. :(
Mindful · 56-60, F
Right now I’m just hoping to hold onto my 10 year old daughter who has asthma in general

But I’ve been where you are at... I catch your meaning. I’m over my past because we parted peacefully and it helps that I have a genuine partner now.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Mindful I can imagine you are worried for your daughter. Hugs to you. I will say a prayer for her safety and well being. I am happy you made that transition and have a loving partner.
Mindful · 56-60, F
💕😘@Tomorrow
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
No, not really, but every so often the memory comes back for a time. Can not change the past nor another's feelings when they will not forgive you, so let it go and move on. Once you can forgive yourself it begins to fade and is thought about less and less.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@OKWTF2 I'm glad you have at least found a way to get past it. That is the important part.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
A dream my wife and I share as to where we'd like our lives to go...it is possible but very highly unlikely. It's the hope in that remote possibility that keeps me holding on.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@indyjoe Always hold on to those dreams!
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@Tomorrow I will...trust me😉
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Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@LittleEvilOne Unfortunately that happens. :(
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Iwontsayitdidnthurt · 31-35, M
I am moving on slowly.

It's really hard to turn feelings off like a lamp.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Iwontsayitdidnthurt It certainly is. Sorry you're experiencing that.
Repete · 61-69, M
Nope we are still good friends and have a wonderful daughter past that nothing left .
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Repete That is the way of it sometimes. :(
Way to blow my lotto dreams
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I didn't think you'd know I was talking exclusively to you... 😂
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@Eddiesolds It's a bummer for sure.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Tomorrow yes it is for sure
SW-User
For over 20 years now. It’s like my mind won’t let that 0.00000000000001% chance go.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User I am probably kidding myself but I guess I'll give it a go. I deserve more. Good luck to you too.
SW-User
@Tomorrow I think a key part is knowing you deserve more. That part still is hard for me to overcome because I’m still a bit blind to what I deserve truly
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@SW-User Maybe it will become clear soon.
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Tomorrow · 56-60, F
@DarkCrazyArtistGeekGamer I wasn't making generalizations. I didn't imply this would apply to everyone. It is a question that has merit. Perhaps the one you love has died. Perhaps they completely abhor you. Perhaps they have had a TBI and now have the intellect of a 3 year old. There are so many circumstances people find themselves in, to which my question completely valid. It may not be relevant to you, but there are those of us for whom it is very real.
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
People who delete their answers really give me a pain in the ass. Why even bother saying anything to begin with?
Tomorrow · 56-60, F
And people who block you because even though you were not rude or demeaning, simply can't handle the fact you didn't agree with them. 🙄

 
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