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Is it a bit drastic cutting family out of my life?

I feel like I'm starting to hate them, more each day.
Degbeme70-79, M
Cut them out but lose the hatred. That`ll eat you up worse than having them around you.
lucetta1236-40, F
@Degbeme I feel like I have so much hatred because they are in my life. If I didn't have them in my life, I'd be much happier.
Degbeme70-79, M
@lucetta12 You need to get as far away from them as you can.
NanoriF
no, it's fine, they're draining you
lucetta1236-40, F
@Nanori 馃憣馃徎馃憣馃徎 Thanks. 馃挏
lucetta1236-40, F
@SW-User The problem is they are negative people. I have a brother that's been in and out of jail for years and he's top of their priority. Maybe if I was a criminal, they'd give a shit.
SW-User
@lucetta12 That sucks if they are supporting your brother. Instead of that they should make your brother do things which doesn't gets him into a jail. Negativity is all around us. In your case you are morally affected by there behaviour. Which is affecting you. Best option for you is to get your mind out of negativity. Do things which you like they don't own you. But remember circumstances can change them too. If they think clearly and did some healthy life they can change themselves.
SweetMae70-79, F
It is drastic but sometimes necessary.
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LatebloomerF
Absolutely not. Do what you need to do to heal.
FernieF
@lucetta12 They are toxic to you...mine was also...I left them so I could live my life before their negativity killed me. Do what is best for your mental and physical health
lucetta1236-40, F
@Fernie Why don't they realize why I hate them? I stop speaking to them for a few days and they are always pissed off with me doing that, but I do it to block them out. They think I am the one with the problem. They have 3 kids but 2 of us are fucked up.
NanoriF
@lucetta12 because they're self righteous ppl who never doubted themselves
BearDownChicago41-45, M
Indont thinknyou should cut them out but maybe keep it as selective communication
SW-User
Why do you have them?
lucetta1236-40, F
@SW-User To leave them
SW-User
@lucetta12 I meant those feelings.
Zonuss41-45, M
Do what's best for you.

 
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