Is it just me or is there anyone else that doesn't get invited anywhere by family?

Not even an email saying hello for Christmas...
I quit trying a few years ago, screw them.

I cut off with whatever family I had left. I dont have family anyways. Just a few cousins who are too busy with their lives. Everyone else passed away.

I get invited to the holidays. I don't go.

Nope never. My mom tries inviting me then the rest of the family doesn't want the 'embarrassment I cause them' so I wouldn't go even if I was invited.

I get invited...selectively; sometimes I'm welcome, sometimes I'm not.
I rarely ever show up to anything though, so I suppose that makes the fam and I, even 🤣

I get invited for the major holidays by my son. But there are ways to overcome your own situation. If you would like to see your family, and if they are people you enjoy being around, you should invite them over to your place. It usually works both ways. You can do a pot luck.

Hey it happens. Why would u want to go where u are not wanted?

I'm taking it that for some reason or another, you have been labeled as the black sheep of the family.

I know for myself, other than my mom (my father passed away in January 0f 2017), I seldom speak to or visit with other family members. But that in part I can attribute to a degree to my job as a professional driver in the transportation industry. Asides from that, there are a few family members I never really liked growing up. So I have no interest in seeing them or knowing what they are up to.

my family pretend like i dont exsist so i know the feels

😔

Perhaps you never accepted invites in the past?