How do I stop feeling hatred for my boyfriend?
I hate him when I think about the horrible things he has done to me. I don’t trust him at all because of it. I want our relationship to be better.
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4meAndyou · F
You should not BE in a relationship with him if you hate him.
You have to recognize that in others there are signals called "red flags" and when you see them, then you know you've hooked up with a toxic or abusive person. I don't know what he's done, but here is a guideline.
https://thecoalition.org/red-flags-for-abusive-relationships/
If he has ticked off more than three things on this list, RUN...don't walk.
You have to recognize that in others there are signals called "red flags" and when you see them, then you know you've hooked up with a toxic or abusive person. I don't know what he's done, but here is a guideline.
https://thecoalition.org/red-flags-for-abusive-relationships/
If he has ticked off more than three things on this list, RUN...don't walk.
SWisGoingWoke · M
Mindful · 56-60, F
This is excellent advice. Don’t confuse your feelings of passion. Love is passionate. Hate is passionate. It’s easy to miss passion. But feelings of hate should be a signal that you should break up, let go, and find someone who is already kind and can treat you the way you want to be treated. It’s common for people to be nice when they first meet. Time shows you what a perso. Is really like. If they don’t turn out to be what you thought they were, you kindly explain that and break up. Living with someone with the feeling of hatred is very dangerous.Anger can lead to losing self control and you may end up making each other so angry that one person does something seriously bad.@eerie
Reflection2 · 36-40, M
Longpatrol · 31-35, M
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
quitwhendone · M
room101 · 51-55, M
Why are you with him? Why do you even consider him as your boyfriend? You hate him!
In the immortal words of Elsa:
"Let it gooooo oh oh"
In the immortal words of Elsa:
"Let it gooooo oh oh"
SW-User
If you feel like that why not leave him if he has done horrible things to you he doesn't deserve you
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Remember the love he has given to you and the good times you spent together.
xixgun · M
If you want your relationship to be better, then end it.
Ian123 · 61-69, M
Why are you with him, find someone better
Talk to him
Dshhh · M
get a new one