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Last night i said something really stupid

In front of my BFF who is overeight, her whole family is overweight and they are very sensitive about it as they have tried many times to lose weight i said:

“He (someone I know) should be all over that like a fat kid on a smartie” UGH. As soon as i said it i felt like an ass. IDK why i said it. It just slipped out. I’m usually very sensitive to those situations. Should i say/do anything? Apologize?
Magnolia · 31-35, F
I don't think you should apologise. IMO if you bring it up it looks more serious than you want it to look.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
that’s what i think too@Magnolia
xixgun · M
We had a phrase for such instances in the Army. "You stepped on your dick."
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
LOLLL that’s a great expression! @xixgun
xixgun · M
@DoubleRings It applies on many occasions.
TexChik · F
Buy them a good keto book ? 😉

Oh just let it go ... like pulling out the knife, it makes it hurt again .
rjc36 · 56-60, M
I would say if it is not brought up leave it be. If you sense there is still an issue apologize.
SW-User
Lol 😂 it wasn’t intentionally meant to hurt. Shows you’re human, chill btw that made me laugh 🙊
SW-User
Sorry if they are that sensitive...your intentions were not bad so ,unless they bring it up I'd just let it be.
SW-User
Did you consume alcohol or any substance which made you high before talking to her?
SW-User
@DoubleRings ok. Did she express how she felt when you told her all this? I mean was crying or ran away. If you feel sorry just call her up for a treat in a fancy place. Hopefully if she is cool she would have a nice time with you. ☺️
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
she didn’t say anything but it’s still a shitty thing to say. I remember one time a gf of mine used this expression while speaking in a professional setting to some parents of a child we were working with (not even overweight) and i just thought OMG that’s horrible. @SW-User
SW-User
@DoubleRings I know. Sometimes people can over react and some people are too shy or introvert. If you genuinely feel sorry and you think she is a nice person. You should take her to a nice restaurant or place. If she still forgives you then you will understand that what kind of person she is. 😊
the truth just sucks sometimes. LOL
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Yeah you should apologize if you know she's sad about it. If she didnt take it personal then simply apologizing about it might make her take it personal.

Choose your words carefully
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SW-User
@Psycho dude I only called you stupid. 😂🤣
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SW-User
@Psycho silly boy. I am just trying to chill you up. 😁

 
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