**TO WOMEN** Why...
Why is it that when a man, that you don't find attractive, pays you a compliment, you instantly get that look on your face like you sniffed a fart?
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OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
@HeilHitler Thank you, I appreciate that.
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RubySoo · 56-60, F
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
@BeefySenpie Just another way of putting "I want to fuck you.".
BeefySenpie · M
@OwnerOfMany I like a little subtlety myself 😉
It's letting you know you stand no chance whatsoever
saving you the let down
saving you the let down
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@OwnerOfMany I haven't in my posts? Sheesh! I need to try harder
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
@Phire1 Let's say you work in a place for 5 years and it is majority male. At this job you normally dress conservatively, professionally. One day you have to leave early to attend some event that requires you to get really decked out. You walk in with a more formal dress, makeup done perfectly and hair styled differently. Let's say that normally you are a relatively attractive woman but this day you glow.
Anyone who has seen you almost daily for five years is going to be taken by surprise to some degree and you should expect some compliments or some comments as to how different, good, pretty, or whatever simply because of the surprise. That would not be unacceptable unless some asshole made a crude comment.
That would be an example of the exception I spoke of.
Anyone who has seen you almost daily for five years is going to be taken by surprise to some degree and you should expect some compliments or some comments as to how different, good, pretty, or whatever simply because of the surprise. That would not be unacceptable unless some asshole made a crude comment.
That would be an example of the exception I spoke of.
Phire1 · 51-55, F
@OwnerOfMany At one job I had, every day I wore business-casual attire. One day I wore an outfit that was a little dressier. The (female) boss commented that I was dressed up more than usual and asked what the occasion was - I was going to a friend's wedding after work. I understand that dressing up more than usual one day may bring comments/compliments.
(side note - this boss had an issue with parents and single parents. She said I could have asked to leave work early for my friend's wedding. But, she always had an issue when I needed time off if my kids were sick or needed to go to the doctor)
(side note - this boss had an issue with parents and single parents. She said I could have asked to leave work early for my friend's wedding. But, she always had an issue when I needed time off if my kids were sick or needed to go to the doctor)
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RubySoo · 56-60, F
It depends on the 'compliment'. What many men think of as a compliment really isnt something i find complimentary! Its how its said that makes the diffence not who says it. 'You look great in that dress. It shows off your figure well' would be a nice thing to hear.
'I love how it shows off your tits....id love to suck those!' Is more common of the 'compliments' men give here on SW. Disrespectful. Thats why i look down my nose.....
'I love how it shows off your tits....id love to suck those!' Is more common of the 'compliments' men give here on SW. Disrespectful. Thats why i look down my nose.....
Phire1 · 51-55, F
If it's a genuine polite compliment I just say 'thank you' no matter what the person looks like. Sometimes, genuine polite compliments also can be given at an inappropriate time, or unwanted.
If a woman is giving that look you described it might just be her way of saying she's not interested.
If a woman is giving that look you described it might just be her way of saying she's not interested.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
I react negatively to compliments in general even from people I like because, if you're complimenting me, you clearly don't know me very well.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@OwnerOfMany When someone compliments me on how kind I am, it confuses me because I'm a hostile and physically violent hothead.
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
@BlueMetalChick What if they compliment what you are wearing? Your hair? Your scent?
I am the kind of guy who, if I did know you, would say, "You're a bitch, but you have good taste."
I am the kind of guy who, if I did know you, would say, "You're a bitch, but you have good taste."
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@OwnerOfMany That would probably cause a fairly neutral reaction in me. I'm not confused or annoyed by it.
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
I think the next time I start to compliment a woman I'm just going to go ahead and stick a chihuahua turd in her nostril and get the look over with.
SW-User
I take compliments politely from any level of attractiveness in a person.
I might get giddy if its from someone I do find attractive.
I might get giddy if its from someone I do find attractive.
SW-User
I have never gotten. That look when a man has complimented me. How rude. You say thank you, no matter if you're attracted to him or not.
SW-User
Because I'm a queen and queens know they're hot, ya know?
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
Yeah, I would like to know that too.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SubstantialKick read my reply......lol
SW-User
A woman told me I had nice legs yesterday..
rachelsj · 22-25, F
I try to be polite if possible
OwnerOfMany · 90-99, M
[@rachelsj} Glad to hear it. As long as it is just a compliment, you should be.
SW-User
I’ve never done or seen that.
SW-User
Cause I wannnnaaa