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what's the point of being nasty in your introduction statement on SW?

OK. we know you don't want to flirt or talk dirty etc. but why be mean?
MellyMel22 · F
[i][c=#BF0080]I don’t think I’m nasty in mine, but some do- honestly I think they’re just mad I’m not willing to do what they want and that’s too bad. I’m not obligated to talk dirty, listen to it by them or share anything I don’t want to. [/c][/i]
@MellyMel22 I agree, there shouldn’t be a reason for anyone to be getting offended by it unless they planned on acting in the way the intros are described. The messages are not directly targeted towards everyone, just towards the people who are looking to act in an inappropriate way. So if you feel as if someone is attacking you personally due to these intros or as if the intros are targeting you, then that just shows that you were looking to be inappropriate in the first place. My intro isn’t “nasty”, but I can understand why some are when you’re consistently objectify and having to deal with “friendly” conversations leading to sexual nonsense with nearly any guy you come across on here. 🤷🏽‍♀️ A lot of those people with “nasty” intros are actually really friendly if taken the time to get to know them through the feed instead of directly sneaking to their inbox, then labeling “unclassy” because they don’t want to put up with garbage.
MellyMel22 · F
@Stark [i][c=#BF0080]Yes.. 💜[/c][/i]
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
@MellyMel22

[quote]’m not obligated to talk dirty, listen to it by them or share anything I don’t want to.[/quote.]

too bad they are missing out on so much of you that’s a good friend!!! 🤗
SW-User
If you find it offputting, that means it's working.
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@SW-User not off putting, just reflects poorly on their character.
SW-User
@memyselfandyou if you really think getting angry about being treated like an object reflects poorly on someone, you aren't the kind of person they want to hear from anyway
The shear numbers of messages woman get on sites like this wears down our patience. Sorry you got hurt but other males have ruined it for many.
@memyselfandyou That is not right either. You do have the right to tell them you are not interested in sex chat.
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@GoldButterfly I do.. but sometimes some sexual; tension is normal between men and women.
@memyselfandyou Sometimes but not always. In that case then the subject is approached respectfully. It is not forced or demanded in any way. And when one says they don't want to go there then is when the other needs to back away.
Actually I like seeing that in an intro or About Me. It's a tip off this person is either a total loonie tune.....or completely socially dysfunctional. That saves me a TON of time I might have wasted on that person. Read.....move on....and say thank you mentally for letting me know to avoid you upfront.
LyricalOne · F
Probably been burnt before and are looking for an extra layer of anti-perv protection.
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@LyricalOne wow... it goes both ways you know
LyricalOne · F
@memyselfandyou Never said otherwise. You seem to have a bit of a chip on your shoulder. Sorry, but whatever women burnt you, I ain’t them.
gummybears · F
Some “ladies” just play hard to get
gummybears · F
@memyselfandyou I don’t believe people on here...
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@gummybears trust issues?
gummybears · F
@memyselfandyou no, I just don’t know them and I don’t have to believe them
It’s SW, everyone can be whoever they want

2 very popular women on here have been accused of being catfish and they couldn’t prove otherwise.. You can’t believe 95% of users 🤷🏻‍♀️

But again, it’s SW, they can lie, they can do what ever they want
Peaches · F
I didn't think I was mean at all, don't even think I made any statements about that.🤔 Mine just says "in a relationship" I think.
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@Peaches you think?
Peaches · F
@memyselfandyou Can't remember if I added that now, 🙃 I've redone it a few times.
memyselfandyou · 46-50, M
@Peaches haha
Rutterman · 46-50, M
They probably want to make sure you get the point, but I agree, some are really nasty about it.
The only thing I can imagine is that it’s a reaction to the way someone’s already behaved towards them. I didn’t post the caveat that I’m not here to exchange photos until I’d already received a few [b]questionable[/b] ones from folks being “proactive”. 🤦🏽‍♀️
curiosi · 61-69, F
Don't know what do you consider nasty? Or maybe they are just fed up with man not taking no for an answer.
Right.. as we need to be told you’re a bich 😏
Indy74 · 46-50, F
My introduction is not nasty, it's just straight and to the point. Many men have disregarded it and I have had to block them. Respect is the key word.
Anything that keeps the pervs and freaks away is a good thing!!!
What's mean?

 
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