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If a Woman hits a Man can the Man hit back ?

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DragonFruit · 61-69, M
If necessary for self-defense, yes.
(if he can stop her from hitting him again without hitting her, he should do that....but he is not required to let her beat him)
Nimbus · M
@DragonFruit Good points.
SW-User
A real man does not. He can remove himself from the situation though.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User It IS confusing.
SW-User
@Nimbus yea confusing times in the days of our lives. 😁
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@SW-User NuthInGz Confsingz BouTz ASSuLtz
Bagalamaga · 56-60, M
Im sorry but I can’t say no to this anymore.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Bagalamaga LoZERZ meNZ apoloflgiZeZ
DaveyTaco · 31-35, M
@DonaldTrumpet apolo what? lol
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@DaveyTaco coVfeFE
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
the law doesn't see it that way... 9 times out of 10, the guy is the one that'll get charged with assault (even if all he does is retrain her/put her in a headlock/chokehold), even if the woman inflicted the most bodily harm and/or used a weapon

On the other hand, if you taser them, it's perfectly acceptable (and quite hilarious watching them drop like a log...) 🤔

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7hFxcy40vk]
SW-User
@wildbill83 my thoughts about the law exactly.
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Nimbus · M
@wildbill83 👍️
AbbeyRhode · F
I detest violence, and although I'm generally old-fashioned about the male-female relationship, I feel that if a woman is crude and violent enough to raise her hand against her man, he has every right to defend himself.
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode We agree.........again ;)
AbbeyRhode · F
@Nimbus We usually do, *Hugs* ☺️
Nimbus · M
@AbbeyRhode I know :) *hugs*
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I don't think she is acting like a woman and should be stopped. If that takes hitting her, so be it.
abe182 · 46-50, M
@SweetMae well said!
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@abe182 Thank you my friend! 🤗
Nimbus · M
@SweetMae 👍️

Correct :)
Dusty101 · F
Well everyone wants to be equal these days so I'm sure he should have the right to!
Nimbus · M
@Dusty101 Exactly.
Dusty101 · F
@Nimbus I'm into physical violence but if I took a swipe at my hb... Iim sure his reaction would hit me back.
SW-User
Just be the bigger person and restrain unless he’s weaker than her
SW-User
@BlueMetalChick see, Im entirely introverted. Id much rather stay home with my guy and read or cook.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User I can't do that for many reasons. One because I have lots of friends and I like doing stuff with them, two because I hate the feeling of missing out on fun to be had elsewhere, and three because I can't hold a relationship since I hate the prospect of someone feeling entitled to my attention.
Lostpoet · M
@BlueMetalChick I think you might over think some things.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Both will have their butts hauled to jail for domestic violence
Nimbus · M
@cherokeepatti Good point.
Never
just walk away or restrain her but never hit her
the power behind your punch is too much for her
SW-User
@Nimbus @ManIsEatingEarthUpLikeCandy In most cases, there’s just no comparison to the punches by a man vs. a woman.
Nimbus · M
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@SW-User JuTz giVeZ HeRZ a LiTEz upoercUtz
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
I suppose so. I mean, if he's beating her to a pulp, that's a different story. It would be no different than a physically strong man hitting a physically weak man.

And of course there's always the in-between option of slapping. In a court of law, slapping someone is treated differently than punching them.
Nimbus · M
@BlueMetalChick True.
There is a fine difference.
SW-User
Anyone can do anything. Doesn't mean they should.
If violence is going to be the answer for every problem, then permission is not needed.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@SW-User ASM then lol
SW-User
Nimbus · M
@SW-User Good point.
4meAndyou · F
If a bully assaults you, do you have the right to also assault the bully? Legally, no. Man, woman, it makes no difference.

You do not have the legal right to hit anyone, even if they hit you first, just as homeowners do not have the right to kill burglars when they break into your home. One crime does not justify another.

If, however, someone is trying to shoot you and you throw a knife to make them stop and the knife kills the shooter, you are exempt, because that is legal self-defense.
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
@4meAndyou [quote] just as homeowners do not have the right to kill burglars when they break into your home.[/quote] We do here, "Castle Doctrine", if someone breaks into your home, vehicle, or business; you have every right to use deadly force
joe438 · 61-69, M
@wildbill83 We have Castle Doctrine in Massachusetts as well. The courts do look at you funny if you shoot too fast, but if someone breaks in and shows any intent to harm you, it's fine to use lethal force.
4meAndyou · F
@wildbill83 Different states have different laws.
Not if he's done something wrong.
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Vivaci workZ MorEZ, wverydayZ PayZ MorEz taxeZ.

WimENZ ownZ onwZ womBz anDZ wanTz equalitieZ so ShuDz PayZ foR ownz babyz
@DonaldTrumpet 🧐 that's BS!!
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
@Vivaci whYz? WimENZ womBz WimENZ PayZ
Fernie · F
He should have her arrested for assault and battery and not hit back unless his life is in danger...the same should happen in reverse.
Nimbus · M
@Fernie That's fair.
joe438 · 61-69, M
@Fernie You have to defend yourself, but yes - do the minimum and then call the police.
Fernie · F
@joe438 exactly my point
Reflection2 · 36-40, M
Hit back or not but Women can do anything and still be victim
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Reflection2 · 36-40, M
@sspec You heard, maghermach k ansu! Melts most hearts even if not a victim.
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SW-User
If I ever did that I'd expect to be hit back.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User It IS equality.
Lostpoet · M
@SW-User I real guy won't hit you back.
SW-User
@Lostpoet I've never been hit by a man nor have I ever hit a man either
MissMoon · 26-30, F
In an ideal world nobody would be hitting anyone :(
Dusty101 · F
@MissMoon true! 🙏🤗💚
Nimbus · M
@MissMoon Yay!

Unfortunately we don't.
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
I’d just hit em back with a sack of potatoes. 💁🏻‍♂️
SW-User
@CrustyDDingus 😂😂
Nimbus · M
Gender does not come into the matter of self-defense. If she is willing to throw a punch, she is willing to take a punch back. I did not fight back when my last ex beat me with a bat for wanting to break up but after the neighbors called the police, the cop said I should have just pushed her off the 2nd story balcony.
Nimbus · M
@Anonymartyr THat seems fair.
1GHOST · M
equality ---- equal beatings for equal beings
1GHOST · M
@Fernie I stand by what i said about equal treatment and in fact so does the law .
If a woman hits me and i have not put hands on her the LAW also states i have the right to defend myself with enough reasonable force to END the threat.

And let me clarify a few things a women is NOT always a lady .
Fernie · F
@1GHOST mature and evolved men walk away unless their lives are in danger...you never heard that before? You sound like an angry at all women kinda manboy. I'm done with this asinine conversation...you've revealed who you are...i don't waste my time with males like you. As a matter of fact...you're so toxic I will block you
1GHOST · M
@1GHOST sooooooo fernie removed her posts ?
abe182 · 46-50, M
Defend and subdue.
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Nimbus · M
@abe182 Yes.

A great compromise!
shuhak · M
Of course... so long as he's hitting a wall or other inanimate object.
(a woman shouldn't be hitting anyone in the first place, except in self defence)
Nimbus · M
@shuhak Dat is true.
MrAboo · 36-40, M
I grew up with the belief I’d you’re hit by a woman you deserve it, unless it’s like a play slap. Then you need to be careful not to take it to seriously
Nimbus · M
@MrAboo I haven't heard of that one before.
Interesting.
Lostpoet · M
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Nimbus · M
@Lostpoet 👍️
SW-User
I’ve been hurt by a lot of women, I try my hardest to not hit back.
Nimbus · M
@SW-User Me too.
SW-User
@Nimbus sometimes, I feel they take advantage of it.

One day I’ll drop that moral and I’ll show a woman em what it’s like to be beaten without the ability to defend yourself. See if it’s so funny, then.
rjc36 · 56-60, M
In my opinion it is never excitable for a man to hit a woman.
Nimbus · M
@rjc36 I respect that view.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@rjc36 Under most circumstances I agree with you (and I wouldn't do it myself)...but just because women in general are smaller and lighter than men, a woman is quite capable of causing serious harm/injury and even death to a man. And if a woman is physically and viciously attacking a man then he should have the right to defend and protect himself by any means possible and that includes fighting back to disarm or disable her.
Wol62 · 51-55, M
Interesting question, but does a real woman hit a man?
Nimbus · M
@Wol62 I think it is becoming more common.
Sounds like a really bad idea.
Nimbus · M
@MistyCee 👍️
TexChik · F
@Nimbus if he can get up 😉
Nimbus · M
@TexChik lol, I have heard about feisty Texas women ;)
TexChik · F
@Nimbus 🤠
DonaldTrumpet · 70-79, M
PucHx her LitEz OuTz
Nimbus · M
SW-User
Hitting is so bourgeois
Nimbus · M
@SW-User 😁
Nimbus · M
@Human1000 👍️
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Nimbus · M
@MarmeeMarch I've encountered some strange women ;)

 
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