Technically speaking when it comes to men and women the women attempt suicide more frequently and use pills. Men have a higher success rate using a firearm or hanging themselves but their attempts are not as frequent as women. I speak from experience when I say that taking a bunch of pills doesn't take you quietly and painlessly. Your stomach doesn't like it. I was screaming and doubled over in pain. Later in the hospital after what seemed like hours of puking my mom was sitting next to me and she kept saying to herself "I wish your father was here." He was away on business and really needed his support. I felt terrible for putting her through that. You might think it's a good way out but it's not. You might think that everyone doesn't realize it but they will be better without you and they might be sad for awhile after you are gone but eventually they will get over it and be better for it. You might think you are just a burden or not worth it. You might think you can't get away from memories that make you worthless. What if the future is brighter? What if wonderful things are ahead for you? What if with some effort you can find happiness again? Everyone deserves to be happy or at least content. What if the first step is just a phone call away? Make the call 1-800-273-8255 (National Suicide Helpline).
Well Hi, quite the entrance you made there, Interesting that you thought this was the place that would supply the information. I dont know you ,we dont know you ,but you cant imagine how many people here are affected by your 4 word statement, with no heads up like you were ordering fries from Macdonalds, that being said, i always take this kind of post 100% for real, and trust me you are not the first .So far as i know we have nt lost anyone yet , cant imaging what got you this far, its has to be very traumatic it has to be devastating ,to even make a statement as bold as yours.So maybe this a last stop attempt a cry for help, because it really would nt have taken too much effort just to google what your looking for.Here is where its hard for me, because i dont know what led up to this point ,or what you really expected from us. were you thinking we had a list,or a couple experts standing by ,🙃 We do have people who would be more than happy to just sit and chat with you, or just listen, maybe you have nt been heard,and that does suck. I look at your age i think to myself i got socks older than you (yes i need new socks) A lot of us here have lived horror stories for life,and we are still here surviving, some better than others ,but that is life.the suicide rate in north America has never seen the like of the stats that we are seeing now for teens ,and young people. I dont know why that is ,this is suppose to be the best time of your lives. I will make deal with you if agree to talk with someone for hour or so ,maybe you and who ever might get a better understanding,and possible come up with different plan .if you leave here feeling the same , i will give what you want . so please read this you answer here or in pms and does nt have to be me . you hAve nothing to lose ,and every thing to gain . my name is terry
Those who are telling her how to do it need to grow up. If you go onto the sucide crisis lines and select your country on here you can talk to someone about how you feel. Someone send her the link. Go on your the lines on next to your profile photo and click on it then go down and click on the help button then you will see the sucide crisis help
@DunDunDun i'm not dead yet and dont plan to be,,,,,
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That first comment is not a ideal thing to say to someone feeling that vulnerable. A man at your age, you should be ashamed of yourself for being that immature and ignorant.@Bluesky52
By meditating. An advanced practise of meditation rids you of the fictional concept you have about yourself which consists of your name and your past. And when all of that is gone what's left is selflessness and great peace and end of suffering.
Some wise person once said, "Die before you die to realize that there's no death "
P.S. few months back one of my best friends committed suicide and it hurts and depresses a lot of people. Everyone's life is an essential component of the whole.
@HeyRouben That's not how wanting to kill yourself works. Shut the hell up and go away. People like you are why people showing signs of being suicidal get ignored, don't get help, and end up either dead or disabled from a suicide attempt.
