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How to numb emotions

On serious note no jokes please
mathsman · 70-79, M Best Comment
Why numb them, embrace them
Where they come from what caused them
SW-User
@mathsman I think the only way someone could numb natural emotions-not fee anything, is if they have sociopath tendencies, don't ya think?

I understand the desire to numb your emotions, but your emotions are your indicators of your proximity to your true being. If you numb your feelings, there's no way to tell which direction you need to go to feel better.

Your feelings are there to protect you. You wouldn't inject your hand with Lidocaine to numb it so you couldn't feel the heat of the hot stove. You need the pain as an indicator that the stove will cause damage if you leave it there. Your emotions work the same way. Numbing your emotions puts you at risk of injury.
Magenta · F
Idk, aside from getting a heartotomy. I haven't learned that one yet. Guess we harden our hearts and become cold. 😑
Montanaman · M
@Magenta but it shouldn't be that way.😔
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Magenta well i want to do that
firefall · 61-69, M
Strenuous prolonged exercise
or intellectual engagement with something completely separate from whatever stirred the emotions

or both I suppose
SW-User
detaching yourself by using a third person perspective for everything
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@SW-User okay
wakanda4eva · 26-30, F
No joke, but ur a deadgirl I don't think you have any emotions to numb
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@wakanda4eva well the name is deadgirl but emotionaly alive i want to be dead emotionaly too
Unlearn · 41-45, M
By knowing one is not ones emotions. Then on can gradually create distance between ones self and ones emotions...once this skill is learned, one can exercise their choice to identify with an emotion or not.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
@Deadgirl in such cases the best help is self help...but I can try if you want. Why do you want to numb it down?
@Unlearn 🙂
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Unlearn sure
Montanaman · M
This could get darker.
Alcohol. Drugs. Cutting...worse.
I sincerely offer my friendship with you to talk. No bullshit. No weirdness. Just someone who greatly cares.
Kelly.😔
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Montanaman i did cutting and it got worse i want to do it again though
Montanaman · M
@Deadgirl assumed as much.
Please feel free to pm me if you would like to talk. I will not intrude on your personal space with unwanted PM's, but you can ask around SW, I'm for real.
Kelly.😔
popmol · 22-25, M
hold it all in making you emotionally dead and then let it eat you away from inside until you burst out in emotions or do something bad
popmol · 22-25, M
@Deadgirl that sounds lovely :)
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@popmol yup it sounds great to be free from pain
popmol · 22-25, M
@Deadgirl yeah! i want that release too :)
TheNaughtyPoet · 51-55, M
have a no strings attached fling... worked for me
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@TheNaughtyPoet elaborate please
TheNaughtyPoet · 51-55, M
@Deadgirl 😉
stop caring for some time and soon nothing will matter
SW-User
Hang around with cold hearted people for years
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@SW-User how to find coldhearted people
SW-User
Become a sociopath.
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@SW-User how to become that
SW-User
@Deadgirl It was kinda sarcastic. Don't think we can. It's usually sociopaths and narcissists that have no real emotion or empathy. All I can think is try to repress your feelings every time you feel them
496sbc · 36-40, M
Umm 😐 i dont know if anything works
MinMan80 · 41-45, M
Abandon all hope yee who enter here.
It's no so hard to do, but once it is done it is even harder to get back.
I gave up mine along time go, I no longer feel love, or happiness, sadness, sorrow, I do sometimes get mad not often or for very long.
Empathy is overrated.
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
I normally try to focus on something else. If something makes me feel sad, I stop thinking about it for a while until I suppress that emotion.
some people use drugs or alcohol
some people use sex
Thursday · 22-25, F
Traumatize the hell out of yourself.
Coppercoil · M
well.. I take stuff.
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Its easy. You kill them. You know how to, but do you really want to?

 
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