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Why do most men on SW...

Have no photos in their gallery. Especially of themselves?
I get that most on here prefer to remain anonymous, but I like a selfie馃榿 馃こ and I feel that a connection is easier to establish if you have an idea of the face.
PoetryNEmotionF Best Comment
Many people of either gender like to be anonymous. Some are fakes. Some just like privacy. I want people to like me based upon my words. I am my words. I don't need to show my lovely face too, Kelly. Besides I like a bit of mystery. I do write upon several sites. Do you know how many have tried to track down my image? I base connections upon people's hearts and words. I know authentic, kind, loving people, Kelly.
MontanamanM
@PoetryNEmotion
You're very welcome. I'vee had people in my home community stalk me, but never online.
@Montanaman It is disconcerting. People get obsessed. One guy was horrendous. I am safer anonymous.
MontanamanM
@PoetryNEmotion understand.馃憤

SW-User
Yes exactly!!! they always ask for pics yet have none on their profiles. 馃檮
SW-User
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LindaM61-69, F
@Synyster ahhaha

ahha
Synyster51-55, M
SW-User
I was on another site once where I had my photos posted and it was fine until I got stalked by one crazy person who tracked me down in real life. I鈥檓 sure it probably wouldn鈥檛 happen twice but I just don鈥檛 want to have to go through all that again.
LindaM61-69, F
maybe its because some are married and only here to be naughty sexually and they dont want to connect with anyone other than sexually...thats why some men here are posting pictures of their dinks instead of their faces...just my opinion..
MontanamanM
@LindaM good observation. 馃槑
Lila1522-25, F
I can't speak for men, but as a female I don't feel comfortable sharing photos of myself, especially on an anonymous site like SW where I don't know who I'm talking to or have any control over what they will do with my photo once it's out there. This isn't Facebook and it's certainly not a dating site.
Lila1522-25, F
@Montanaman Well, you're not using your real name, so you are being somewhat anonymous. Nothing wrong with that, SW was intended to be anonymous.
MontanamanM
@Lila15 true, but I've posted my real name in most writing, so it's known
Kelly.
Lila1522-25, F
@Montanaman Well, obviously my name is Lila, but I'm not going to give out my last name.
SW-User
Well the jerks don't show their faces so they can harass women here and they wouldn't have to worry about being known .
Keepitsimple51-55, F
I do think it has something to do with it. Maybe half that they want to be anonymous and half that they can bombard inboxes and save face ( pun intended) @SW-User
SW-User
@Keepitsimple Yes absolutely I've had an a creep beg me to send my face pic to him and he didn't ever show himself . What does that mean ? It means he knows he's going to do something bad and doesn't want to be found out .
FernieF
Come on Montanaman...you want to see what women look like so you can make a decision
LindaM61-69, F
@Fernie huh????????
FernieF
馃檮@LindaM never mind
MontanamanM
@Fernie humbly, I like to put faces to my friends on SW, but I rarely ask for photos, it's considered rude in my book. 馃憤馃槑
GeorgeTBH31-35, M
i am very hard on my looks and i am not really into selfies its why i don't have any only like 6 people on here have seen my face
pennynoodles56-60, F
Perhaps they enjoy the escapism from the 'real world' so do not wish to be identified on here.
SW-User
I might want to run for pope one day, and my controversial content on here would ruin my chances.
5thApprentice31-35, M
Who really wants to see my face? lol
Dusty101F
@5thApprentice me馃
Dusty101F
I agree.. But some prefer to really remain anonymous 馃懟
Synyster51-55, M
I have nothing to hide.
Synyster51-55, M
@LindaM Yes ma'm 鈽猴笍
LindaM61-69, F
Synyster51-55, M
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Keepitsimple51-55, F
I have no problem with no pictures posted on their profile and if they choose to do in PM after establishing trust with me and are comfortable.
ReneeT61-69, M
And there may be photos in their gallery but not what you would expect, even though it is them!
SW-User
It's an anonymous site, prolly why most people are here
Thevy2941-45, M
I have posted a picture of myself. It's just not in an album.
SW-User
It's okay, I dont wanna connect!
SW-User
I prefer to remain anonymous

 
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