Husband griping at me to pick up after crazy week?
Soo.. Im in this really weird spot in my life. We just had a baby 10 months ago. Husband was ALSO fired from his job about 4 months ago. I have not nagged once about him finding a job, but have decided to take things head on. I was making about 60k per a year. Started looking and low and behold I have now been offered and taken a job for 105k, making me the breadwinner. Because of this, I have not nagged once about him needing to get off his butt to find a job but instead have encouraged him to relax and enjoy his time off, bonding with our daughter and what not, dont worry ive got the bills. Well.. Things are stressful for me. I just started this job, working often 12 hour days. Just about everyday to be honest. Its nuts, but im doing it. I ALSO had to this past week travel for work, very far away for the whole week. I came back Friday and went to not 1 but THREE family events for him Friday, Saturday and Sunday - Essentially leaving me with ZERO recovery time. To add to this, I have caught what im pretty sure is the flu but guess what.. im powering through it. Well.. He has the nerve to text me this morning telling me I need to help him clean the house. Im like What?!.. when I was on maternity leave I cleaned and organized.. every.single.day. And him saying that to me just made me flip my lid.. Telling him he should be cleaning, should get off his but and go look for a job etc.. I admit maybe I was harsh.. But.. Am I totally in the wrong here? Im not going to lie, I did say some things like he just sleeps all day (which he does, and then complains that hes SO tired).. AND our house IS a disaster - But I honestly haven't had the capacity to get it together. I'm really disappointed and just looking for an opinion on this situation. Anyone ever experienced something similar? Am I being out of line?