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As a heterosexual man...

Between a woman playing hard to get and making you work to be a part of her life and a woman who wants to chase you and wants to fit into your life where on the scale do yoy find most attractive?
Its not really a black and white question I'm sure but if you can understand my question and answer as best as you can

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Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M

None, I'll let them friend zone me and be done with it.
Life is to short and time is too precious to be playing games.
I knew 45 minutes after meeting my wife I was gonna spend my life with her, And I have.
28 years and counting, most of them happy.

MushroomFaerie

@Groofydorkgerdo oh that's awesome, I'm happy that that worked out for you both 😁

LarrysReflections · 61-69, M

I'm WAY past this stage in my life, but here are my thoughts.

[b]Looking for honesty:[/b] Does she have any interest in getting to know me?

Hard to get communicates keeping me in the dark as to how she feels about me. Not what I would be interested in playing.

The other side. I don't mind if she drops hints of her interest in me. I may not have been aware of her and am open to considering/getting to know her. But don't smother me. I may not be interested for some reason.

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LarrysReflections · 61-69, M

@MushroomFaerie That would be true. It's a life lesson for the future.

MushroomFaerie

@LarrysReflections yes it is. Thank you, I appreciate it 🙂

LarrysReflections · 61-69, M

👍️

kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

I don’t do chasing, and dont particularly like to be chased. It’s nice when your paths naturally cross with someone continuously and neither can resist the other after so much time has passed

MushroomFaerie

@kartoffelkopf2 that's a great answer

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MushroomFaerie

@RemovedUsername786576 I've never looked at it like that. I've just had an epiphany. Oh gosh

SW-User

Slightly towards the chase. I hope to know I am making progress, but I'm no longer going to throw myself at women like I did as a teen.

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MushroomFaerie

@SW-User @SW-User very interesting, thanks guys

Fantabulous · 46-50, F

@MushroomFaerie very insightful post...

MushroomFaerie

@Fantabulous thanks, just hit me lol

Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M

I think a woman initiating the relationship is better. Gonna have to say it but I think you ladies pick partners better than us guys. When a woman is that into you it makes you want them more. Just not obsessive.

MushroomFaerie

@Pleasingyou81 never even occurred to me that was attractive.
I will be more forward from now on, thanks.

SW-User

I want someone who, deeply, understands me. I get bored easily that way;

MushroomFaerie

@SW-User yeah totally

jaymic64 · M

The latter definitely.

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jaymic64 · M

@MushroomFaerie not at all. It would make me take notice and be more relaxed if I knew she was into me.

MushroomFaerie

@jaymic64 omg thank you. I think my life has changed today lol

jaymic64 · M

@MushroomFaerie glad I could help.

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Woman who chases me.

MushroomFaerie

@MrBrownstone you like that? You don't see it as pathetic? More flattering? Does it make them more attractive to you?

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@MushroomFaerie I love it. Have a preference for strong women.

MushroomFaerie

@MrBrownstone oh I never saw it as strong, I viewed it as weak, maybe slutty.
I'm unlearning shame programmed into me at a young age so I think its skewed my perceptions.
Thankyou

Jibby · 56-60, C

🐴how about horse faces ?

MushroomFaerie

@Jibby bestiality has always been hot

Jibby · 56-60, C

@MushroomFaerie especially with fire ants

MushroomFaerie

@Jibby they are easy to play with

TacoCat · 22-25, M

Kill them both

MushroomFaerie

5thApprentice · 31-35, M

dfw

MushroomFaerie

@5thApprentice lol

Montanaman · M

As you can see from these answers, times have changed and most men don't like playing games, and would rather be upfront and honest about a relationship if it's possible.👍💕

I prefer a woman to be into me so I think that leans more towards being part of my life. But really it goes both ways. You should wanna chase each other lol

walabby · 61-69, M

If you find a shy guy that rings your bell, you better go get him somehow. You might be missing out on "The One".. :)

FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M

I'm not a hunter. Never have been. So the latter is probably more attractive to me. But in reality that rarely happens and it certainly has never happened to me.

MushroomFaerie

@FeetAreFantastic that's interesting. The latter has never occurred to me but with age I have noticed that women who go after men are more likely to find long term love or so I've noticed recently

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

A woman who wants me.

Chasing? fuck that.

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MushroomFaerie

@iamBen yes it does fall on the scale.
Thank you.
Obvious but not to some of us fucked in the head unfortunately.

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