Anybody just want to give up on career? Burned out

Hey yall.. So ive been working for the majority of my life. Since 16.. waited tables, worked various jobs until a graduated college.. From that point on.. Got my first corporate gig and have been doing that since. I work for a fortune 500 now in Sales Development. My whole career.. Ive had this carrot dangled in front of me.. Ive been promised to move into a manager position etc.. Ive wanted that for the longest time.. Well my last job I got pretty close. Manager dutys but not the title or pay.. I left because I felt I was truly being taken advantage of, promised really huge bonuses for high performance that never happened. So I started looking elsewhere and took this job that is borderline entry level (mind you im 10 years into my career now) because the person that hired me told me I was being hired with a manager position in mind when it came available. Well that guy got fired.. The girl who replaced him was WAY better and in all my reviews let me know that a manager position was on the horizon.. Well now.. its like 2 years in and I dont see ANYWHERE where there are open positions to be a manager. I think that overtime, things like taking time off here and there for sick child, not being 100% on time all the time etc.. have degraded me in the higher ups eyes. They are just like that.. No time off.. Cant EVER be late.. Things HAVE TO be 100% perfect..Ive worked hard and been the highest performer, trainer, etc ..But those dings (being late, taking off) seem to have worked against me. At this rate I wonder if im just going to waste more of my time on this hamster wheel.. I kind of want to just give up on the manager dream, take a part time job and not care anymore.. On the other side of it, no one really gets put into a manager position until about the 3 year mark here. Should I just wait it out? Has anyone had any similar situation? What did you do.. Were you glad you did>?

There is just SO much time that we spend working.. You know spinning our wheels for this big carrot in front of us.. And sometimes I just feel like we are never going to get where we want to be even trying our hardest.. Has anyone ever felt this way?