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ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
virginity is all in the mind.. I think too many people have the notion that virginity is wholesome and the right thing... I stopped being a virgin at a really young age, so I say it doesn't matter...if a girl has sex at 15 years old shes labeled a slut, if a boy has sex at 15 hes labeled a man,, so you tell me.. society really is messed up
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in10RjFox · M
@Serenitree she must have been having an affair with the guy .. That answers my earlier question as to how he gained access. Your daughter too could be part of the game to entertain the friend for her benefits ? How does she manage financially.
Serenitree · F
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@Serenitree That makes you who you are 😄 I like that
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@Serenitree You’re welcome 🤗
Mona86 · C
No it doesn’t mean anything significant it is better to be experienced than be ignorant, in everything especially, you gain experience from doing
Madonna ( Mary called the Virgin Mary after she got knocked up by an angel) but doesn’t mean she never had sex, she was married to Joseph!!!
Madonna ( Mary called the Virgin Mary after she got knocked up by an angel) but doesn’t mean she never had sex, she was married to Joseph!!!
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CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Serenitree · F
@CountScrofula No. it's a word with a meaning and it's real. Some people treasure their virginity, and save it for that special someone.
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@in10RjFox 😬 😬 😬
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
I believe it is up to the individual.. I was 10 years old and lost my virginity to a 11 year old girl.. it was consensual and I had no problem,, we knew nothing of consent and it was a good thing.. I looked a lot older than my age... but still I believe it is up to the individual... I never once let church dictate my life.. now retired with 2 children and 5 grandchildren ,, life is grand
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
@Tatsumi please explain to me,, I would love to hear why it matters , not being sarcastic either
Tatsumi · 31-35, M
@ChatterinSeuss Virginity denotes inexperience and a lack of an ability to attract women, in males. Women are attracted to men whom other women are attracted towards. Women, of course, on average, also prefer experienced men.
Hence why calling a man a virgin is typically used as a default insult, by both men and women, particularly women. "You cannot attract women."
And, while female virginity doesn't mean much to guys; it does to me, in particular, because of the same reason: it denotes inexperience. And, in my experience, virgins tend to apply a great deal of meaning to sex, and want you to be the chosen one and get too clingy, if you take their virginity. So, I tend to prefer non-virgins. But even then, I still give virgins a chance. Not my first choice, though.
Hence why calling a man a virgin is typically used as a default insult, by both men and women, particularly women. "You cannot attract women."
And, while female virginity doesn't mean much to guys; it does to me, in particular, because of the same reason: it denotes inexperience. And, in my experience, virgins tend to apply a great deal of meaning to sex, and want you to be the chosen one and get too clingy, if you take their virginity. So, I tend to prefer non-virgins. But even then, I still give virgins a chance. Not my first choice, though.
ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M
@Tatsumi all well and good ,,, but I want a woman with experience... I see many men that brag about having a virgin and deflowering women,, and I am one totally for womens rights.. I don't see virginity as something sacred or holy.. I see it as a lack of experience and a fear of the unknown.. I broke my fear a long time ago ...
GlitterBug · 22-25, F
Serenitree · F
Only until you no longer have it. Then it doesn't matter at all.
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Yes, and I hate my virginity.
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Virginity isnt real
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only if you beleive
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[c=#4C0073]for a young person maybe[/c]
kush90 · 26-30, M
Naaaa