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How do you stop yourself from overthinking?

Tatsumi · 31-35, M
I don't think you can "overthink". I think there's bad thinking, circular reasoning. But thinking is a good thing, so long as you know when a line of thought is just overly negative or has no conclusion: like lack of evidence or isn't productive for whatever reason.

For that, in psychology, there are things called "schemas", which are kinda like relative lists. The way the brain organizes information. Say something comes up. "Blue." By association, your brain categorizes things relative to "blue". So, you think "sky, ocean, my favorite shirt." Et cetera.

So, you can sorta program your brain to creating another schema. "If I think negative thoughts or have a thought process which has no pragmatic end, cancel line of thought."

Basically, you just analyze whether your thought process is productive or aiding you; and, if it isn't, you just drop it or change your thoughts to a different topic. And try to find some way to trigger your brain into recognizing when your line of thought isn't productive.

Creating the schema "Not productive = drop or change thought process."
Serenitree · F
I just don't bother thinking at all....saves a lot of stress and distress.
JennyJam · 31-35, F
You’re overthinking about overthinking
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@JennyJam as a matter of fact, I am. LOL
jackson55 · M
Horace has got it right, drink?
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Read graylight posts.
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find a time machine, go back to medieval ages where you will work all your life just to Survive
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@trixhsilverspun if i knew, you think i would be here playing rpgs instead of making love to witches
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@SW-User poor you..
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Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Problems in life come in two forms.
A.[b]Those you can do something about[/b] and B.[b]Those you can't[/b]

Concentrate on the A's. The 'B's will take care of themselves
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@Picklebobble2 thank you! :)
Vision2Fly · 36-40, M
By keeping myself always busy with something.
It's all about misdirection of your mind.
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@Vision2Fly tried it already, but i get easily distracted though
Vision2Fly · 36-40, M
@trixhsilverspun I see. Help yourself, and try to find solution on your concerns.
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@Vision2Fly yeah i'd have to.
lovingRIZA · 61-69, F
Read articles. Watch shows, movies, documentaries, etc.
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@lovingRIZA i did, but i get distracted too easily.
lovingRIZA · 61-69, F
@trixhsilverspun No matter the distractions, continue to push on. Another would be to do an activity that you have to concentrate doing,,,,
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@lovingRIZA hmmm...
Summersrain · 51-55, F
Best to stop dysfunctional thinking in its tracks when it first starts, before it gets out of hand
CanadianGentleman1976 · 46-50, M
I'll let you know once I figure out how to start thinking in the first place :P
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@CanadianGentleman1976 no problem there XD
sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M
I don't. Passing out stops me eventually, from exhaustion :(
silentwriter180 · 51-55, F
Most likely, I read. Just to get onto another subject.
Just do something about it...
Goralski · 51-55, M
By not thinkin in d first place
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I give myself a talking to
SW-User
I know how to play my mind
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@SW-User Good for you.😞
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trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
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Havent managed to yet
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Wish I knew
PUBGGuy · 36-40
Babysit... Ugh
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I can't; it's a [i]constant[/i] battle for me.
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@trixhsilverspun hugs. Distraction works for a little while, but I wish I could just stop completely.
@SW-User You have the mechanism to break free from overthinking, we all have, but there are instances where what seems to be a simple solution is anything but simple. 'Mindfulness' is fast becoming the latest in regard to tackling a racing mind. Like most issues, it takes time and the ability to need to break free from those thoughts that bombard you. It's achievable, no-one has to be a genius or anything like that. Try Googling the words Mindfulness
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@Justbychance oh, thank you so much. Earlier when I was out, I made a point to notice teal blue vehicles. There were 9.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Eat Pringles to distract myself.
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I haven't figured that out yet
trixhsilverspun · 31-35, F
@meJess nahh. think i i'll pass.

 
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