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What important life lessons have you learned from breakups?

LyricalOne · F Best Comment
If you have to change who you are in any fundamental way to be with a person, they're not the right one.

You can't make someone have feelings they don't have, nor force feelings they don't yet have.

Recognize that sometimes you want something from a person that they just don't have the ability to give.

Understand that oftentimes you don't love the person so much as love who you wish they were.

When you walk away, make a clean break and don't look back.
@LyricalOne that whole comment should be etched in stone...... very wise words, my friend.
LyricalOne · F
@SheCallsMeCrushDaddy Well thank you, you're very kind.
@LyricalOne I’m not sure I have it in me to do this now. I have become so dark & unlovable. I’m empty and broken & I make my own skin crawl. I wish I could just leave myself. I’m the problem. Helpless & Hopeless. Hate myself.

SW-User
men ain't shit
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User true
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
@SW-User right back at cha.
NoYou · 26-30, M
@SW-User rood
SW-User
Some people just aren't meant to be in your life
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@SW-User thats hard to accept x
@RubySoo I’m sorry. My anxiety is through the roof right now.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@DarkHeaven i know hun....and i understand. I just pmed you. X
iamnikki · 31-35, F
don't let anyone talk you into anything. If you don't believe it, it's probably not true
Pineapple · 100+, F
it’s possible to be friends afterwards
@Pineapple definitely can be.
Aidan · 26-30
You can't change people and if its broken let someone else fix it 😂
Serenitree · F
People will lie to each other, instead of being honest and simply saying goodbye.

When someone does come right out and tell the other they aren't happy in the relationship, the other will do anything to change the mind of the departing partner.

We are a contrary species. Nuts, the majority of us.
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
[u][i][b]Don't ignore red flags.[/b][/i][/u]
Some things can’t be overcome or forgotten
ImRileyTheDog · 22-25, F
Never ever date someone my age
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
i've watched a few and most gave me the impressions that those involved wanted fuckies and nothing else but tried to have more fuckies and have a relationship and well that's just fucking funny.
MissMoon · 26-30, F
Don't rush into relationships, get to know the person very well first as sometimes you can eventually find a huge deal-breaker and regret it. :(
Indulge · 36-40, F
there is a good reason why it didn't work out...therefore i never go back to someone I walked away from.
SW-User
The force required to break a bone is about 4,000 Newtons.
Diesel95 · 36-40, MVIP
That I need to stay in control of my own money and not give in so easily
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Don’t chase after them it puts them further off
@PaleandPolluted This is very true 😞
MougyWolf · 36-40, M
Not to date people outside of my subculture.
Reject · 26-30, M
I've learned that no one loves as much as I do.
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M
alot can change from them
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Ive learned i never learn x
SunshineJ · 41-45, F
They hurt .

 
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