Does a person’s name influence the person they become?

There's no way it couldn't, although not in anyway that could have its inputs and outputs systematically defined to be identical in each case. Although these people would say otherwise: https://www.kabalarians.com/ and so would the kinds of old-fashioned occultists who obsess over determining the "gematria" of whatever languages are relevant to them.

1. It can.
2. It doesn't have to.
3. I think with all the influences out there, it's a minor factor.

Except, most of the Astrids I've ever met were kind of other-worldly.

Even though I don't like my name
it fits me
is it because I try to live up to my name?
or is my name, me
I'm still half asleep so I won't make sense for a while yet
if ever

God help us if that's true.
I mean I've met at least two Lizzie's
An Adolf and even an Edward Teech !!!!!

Only if he/she's called "suckmadicklickmatitties"