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if your friend was cheating on her/his husband/wife, would you tell her/his husband/wife?

SW-User
I would tell my friend to knock it off. I don't think it is my place to go tattle tale on them though.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
That's a very sticky situation. Part of me would feel that the victim has a right and needs to be aware of it, and/or the offender needs to be confronted about it. On the other hand, it probably wouldn't be believed and whatever the outcome I would not be held in a good light. Hell, just being a friend and knowing about it would shift a lot of the blame to me no matter what I did or didn't do. I think I would just stay out of it and play dumb... "Really? Wow that's a shock, who'd of thunk it?"🤔
i dont get involved in other peoples domestic situations.
walabby · 61-69, M
No.. When people actually do this, it almost never ends well...
@walabby yeah, ive seen it happen and it split the friends of the cheaters. people dont know whose side to take.
smiler2012 · 56-60
badapple difficult call getting involved and destroying a friendship though you know it is wrong what your friend is doing to playing dumb and not getting involved as it is none of your business
Absolutely. If they're you're friend then your job is to look out for them. [i]I'd [/i]want someone to tell me.
walabby · 61-69, M
@Pikachu This is theory, though. When it actually happens to you you won't believe your friend, and will probably hate them for telling you untrue stories.
I have seen this situation split up good friendships...
Straylight · 31-35, F
Am I friends with his wife?
Straylight · 31-35, F
@badapple Shit, that puts me in a tight spot.

I guess I'd seduce the wife to show him how it feels to be cheated on.
lol
Straylight · 31-35, F
@badapple kidding of course. Mostly.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Nope. I don’t want to be apart of any drama and non stop phone calls regarding the aftermath either.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
No but I would make it clear that I dont care to share in the knowledge about this affair.
UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M
Absolutely. I wouldn't want to perpetuate that betrayal.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
No I would stay out of it.Could get messy.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
sure... cheateroes must pay for fucking with people.
exexec · 61-69, C
No, I didn't tell her, but I think she knew.
ItsGonnaBeOk · 26-30, M
Its non of my business
SW-User
No. I'd stay out of it.
AyDiosMio · 26-30, M
meemo70 · 51-55, M
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
I couldn’t socialize with them anymore if I were to keep quiet. I’m a part of the lie at that point and I want none of it.

 
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