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I received bad news today....

My moms been in hospital for slightly over week for the third time in I would say 6 months due to oxygen being low...high heart rate ...and they have not been able to stabilize her oxygen level....and there is nothing more they can do for her. Her lungs and heart are failing. She will be coming home this weekend and hospice is taking over. I am not ready for to go...I know..who would be? She is 89 yrs old she did live a long life. I am worried how quick her oxygen might go down and take her life once she comes home...even tho she will be on oxygen 24/7. I am gonna lose my shit** when I lose her....she is the only person I have in my life o can go to when I need the kind of comfort I get from her even just being my mom and going to visit just to be there even without a specific reason but that...and the idea of knowing g someday sooner than I know..I will lose that so yes even tho I been strong I feel this will hit me harder than anything in my life....I just don't know what to think n feel right now.
Then again maybe something will happen she gets a lil better...I don't know this til she comes home...I am scared!!! I love her so much and so thankful to God she adopted me and means so much to me....:-( ugh I hate this!!!
Lebarim · 31-35, F
Oh gosh. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. You need all the strength in the world. The thought of ever loosing my mum is unimaginable.
I'm so sorry. God comfort you.
Serenitree · F
I'm so sorry. I understand and sympathize. I was with my mom for the last six weeks of her life. She died in my arms. The pain doesn't leave, but you do eventually get to where you have more happy days than sad ones, and when the memories bring you more joy than pain.
If you ever feel the need to talk, I'm here.
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I recently lost my mother. She was 88 and was bedridden for one month and then she passed away. I can imagine how you are feeling. Its terrible not being able to do a damn thing. I'm so so sorry you are going through this. Keep her comfortable when she comes home and tell her you love her. I hope a miracle happens. 🤗
I'm sorry you have to go through this. Spend as much time with your Mom as you can -- that will comfort you both. Pray with her, pray for her and try to be strong. I hope your Mom's condition improves.
ajsk13 · 51-55, M
although this is the natural progression of life ,I'm sorry this is happening to your family,I went through it suddenly a few years ago and it's the worse thing we go through in life
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Be with your mom.
Of all the people who she would want to be with, you're the one !❤
AnthonyJ · 61-69, M
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
JayneA · 36-40, F
Be strong and let her know how much you love her, treasure every minute and strength and prayers to you and your family x
mrmoose · 70-79, M
hugs
remember there are lots of nice people here for you
Dusty101 · F
Hugs sweetie! I've been there!
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