Why do so many men think women are playing hard to get when they literally just don't like you?

You outa know men pick, it works out. Let the girl pick she picks a wrong guy every time. Every time it's the same kind of loser too and the girl just keeps picking that same wrong kind of guy.

Facts of modern life. Can't fight it. Might as well go bounce from wrong woman to wrong woman.

Those same men are suspicious of any woman who actually wants them & doesn't need to be chased. They're fucked up.

Romantic comedies are [i]full[/i] of this trope.

Why do so many women expect to be chased, then get pissy when they're chased?

Fact of the matter is the standard is male approaches female. The male goal is to impress the female. And, ambition and drive are things that women value in men. Is it so hard to believe that men use those traits in an attempt to impress women?

Going for a goal against all odds. If women didn't like such a trait, it wouldn't be so common in men.

In addition, it's also the *way* you say no. Women have a tendency towards subtelty. Indirect. Then, they feel like they have been obvious, when they really haven't.

Because, unfortunately some women [b]do[/b] play that game. On the other hand, denial is [b]not[/b] a river in Egypt. Some fellows live in hope.

Cause their mommy learned them that they were soo amazing that now they are in the real world they can't believe there is a possibility that someone doesn't like them.

I basically always assume they don't like me.

The Media stereotype of the lady saying no and the man being more forceful and then the lady succumbing is EVIL

Oh ma Gosh!! Those were the exact words of my ex boss when I said no to him in very simple language. Some men I tell you

Some men like a challenge and the chase, and gettin turned down a couple times brings them into challenge mode...