Is it okay to miss someone you don't love and you don't even like anymore cause their personality is even uglier than a shaved bear?
Wtf do I even miss?!😣
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Emotions aren't ruled by logic, if anything it's probably your brain has to untrain itself when it comes to that person. The addictive dopamine rush....
Hmmm I think I figured it out.... 🤔 we're essentially going through a natural internal drug withdrawal fascinating and even more shitty. But you can let yourself off the hook.
Hmmm I think I figured it out.... 🤔 we're essentially going through a natural internal drug withdrawal fascinating and even more shitty. But you can let yourself off the hook.
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DemonicPersona · F
DemonicPersona · F
@InvaderNice Yeah that's what really made it click
Carver · 31-35, F
@DemonicPersona Very well said!
PoetryNEmotion · F
You miss what you thought you had. The idea. The image. You are just feeling down and out and depressed, I think. You are grieving and that is only normal. You will likely think of what little good you can remember and forget why he wasn't desirable. It is all part and parcel of growing up and learning about life. You will be fine. Give yourself time. And shaved bears are not ugly. They are just shaved. Treat yourself well. Move forward one step, one day at a time. And just be...
SW-User
@PoetryNEmotion That's very sweet. And deep down inside I know that you are right but I just can't see it right now. Thank you so much!
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Do you miss the way they made you feel as a person?
There does seem to be a bit of you that doesnt want to let go despite this person being no good for you.
He's not in your life as you want him to be for a reason. I would say find some way of letting go and it will get easier.
Do you find yourself missing them when you arent distracted or occupied with something?
There does seem to be a bit of you that doesnt want to let go despite this person being no good for you.
He's not in your life as you want him to be for a reason. I would say find some way of letting go and it will get easier.
Do you find yourself missing them when you arent distracted or occupied with something?
SailorMarz · F
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InvaderNice · 26-30, M
@SailorMarz Yes, Sailer, but with love lol. You're funny. ❤️
SailorMarz · F
@InvaderNice oh okay! & lol thanks?
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@SW-User I hope so.😕
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
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@InvaderNice Yeah, I think that's it. I miss what [i]I thought[/i] was going on.
InvaderNice · 26-30, M
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@InvaderNice Thank you.
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@MsAnnThropy Go grow some body hair you fugly thing!!!
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@OKWTF2 Yeah...
OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User well at some point you cared about, liked or maybe even loved that person. As time passes for some reason by nature people tend to remember all the good things and the good feelings you had, where even though there is a reason they are an ex, the shaved bear parts about them are mysteriously harder to remember.
It is weird, but seems to be true with most people. Maybe we are hard wired not to hold on the the unpleasant and bad memories when it comes to other people? It is good, because we stay happier in general, bad because we may not completely give up on a relationship we need to kick to the curb.
It is weird, but seems to be true with most people. Maybe we are hard wired not to hold on the the unpleasant and bad memories when it comes to other people? It is good, because we stay happier in general, bad because we may not completely give up on a relationship we need to kick to the curb.
SWisGoingWoke · M
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@SWisGoingWoke I am not though.😕
SWisGoingWoke · M
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@Elegy worth examining?
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@SW-User I wasn't even feeling good after a while.
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5thApprentice · 31-35, M
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@5thApprentice I don't know, HEEEEELP!😣
Classified · M
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@Classified 😞
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