do u enjoy being tied up, or doing the tying up more?

In a kidnap scenario I'd rather be doing the tieing up. In bed I'd rather be tied up.

That's a tricky one. Both ways are really erotic. It kind of depends on how my partner and i are feelng. And who wants to be the dominant and the submissive at the time. My partner is naturally more submissive than me but there are times when i will beg to be tied up, blindfolded and teased. Delicious!!