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@Serenitree: And TBH it is not for everyone, I have seen jealousy, resentment and distrust break up a lot of couples.....Some things sound better on paper than in real life.

Does he ever eat other women's cooking? @Serenitree:

@Izzi1s: my problem was that my husband was already a cheat. To go along would have been approval.

@AnneHoney: sex and cooking. I cook for a lot t of people I won't have sex with. Where are you going with this?

@Serenitree: I respect that reasoning.

Swinging needs to be an extension of the amazing sex that you share and not used to fill in a void of what is missing.

Being in the lifestyle I always get nervous to hear someone say "I am trying to talk my spouse into trying swinging". I have seen many happy couples get divorced because of jealousy, resentment, and distrust....Some think that by calling it swinging that it is justification for cheating with permission.

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I think sex is an activity, not some monumentally attached to marriage religious act of commitment. When you were dating did you insist your sexual partners were virgins?

@AnneHoney: when I was committed to a relationship, married or not, I didn't screw other people. Dating was different. And no. Not even in my marriage did I care about who he had before me.

You're free to feel whatever you feel. You want to screw other guys. Go for it. But you don't get to tell me that my wishes are wrong.

@Serenitree: never said you were wrong for you