How do you deal with a moody boyfriend?

My boyfriend has gone into a mood with me over a disagreement we've had regarding a situation we were recently in. He knew my feelings about this particular topic from the start of our relationship, but because he's now realised that he's not getting his own way, he's being moody and barely talking to me. He insists that he's not in a mood though! Advice/opinions please?

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Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F

By not dealing with it atall, life has so little time for bullshit you see.

RebeccaJP · 36-40, F

@Simplegirlstory: lol!! That's good advice thank you! So I should ignore him until he's acting normal again?

Simplegirlstory · 31-35, F

Ya, he will return. He is just looking for your attention.

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

So True 🌹@Simplegirlstory

HeadInTheClouds · F

Leave him be he'll get over it. Ignore his bs.

Spinoza · M

Don't let his silence control you. Try to reason with him and if you can't then let him be unhappy. Him denying the mood is borderline gaslighting- in my opinion.

RebeccaJP · 36-40, F

@Hakphin: I see what you mean. When I try to discuss it with him, he's so dismissive that it upsets me. I'll stop trying to talk about it with him and let him get on with his mood. Thanks!

Spinoza · M

What was the original issue? You're welcome.

SW-User

It adjusted to his moody way or get a new bf 😉😊

UnrestrictedHappy ·

When a baby throws a tantrum about not getting their own way the best way to respond is to ignore....that way they come to realise they are not going to get their own way no matter how venomous their actions....worth a try maybe?

Paul62 · 56-60

Just let him have own way as may work out better for you in long run ?

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