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Should I hang out with a guy who is interested in me when I'm still dating another guy?

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[c=#BF0080]Actually in my opinion it all depends on how the other guy you're dating feels about it. He is the one who should be asked this.[/c]
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[c=#BF0080]Well that's good. Go have fun then. ^^[/c]
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lol But he says no movies haha.
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[c=#BF0080]Yep figures...you'll figure it out.[/c]

AlphaPuppy · 26-30, M
How would you feel if it was the other way around
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@AlphaPuppy: He's allowed to hang out with friends I trust him.
AlphaPuppy · 26-30, M
@Cityyy: Ok, then shouldn't be an issue if he doesn't have a problem with it
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ViolinStrings · 31-35
you're free to decided who you hang out with...but also free to choose who's the right one for you.

Whatever your choice will be, I hope you have a nice time
Fernie · F
why would you do that to him??
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@Fernie: It's just hanging out as friends. =/
Fernie · F
@Cityyy: he's interested you said...don't try to weasel out of it...it would be mean
Snickerdooodle · 31-35, F
It's not like you're married. But lying is immature and hurtful, so if who you're dating is under the impression that he's the only one when he's actually not, shame on you
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Which part am I lying about? My boyfriend is the only one I see in my eyes. The other one is just a friend that wants to hang out. Is hanging out with friends not allowed even if I have no romantic feelings for him?
Blueyed · 61-69, M
Yes. It means you're not really into the guy you are dating.
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Oh, but it does sir. Your statement is fallacious, and I hope you realize that. I hold no romantic feelings for my friend. Hanging out with a friend is not a crime especially when I fancy someone else.
Blueyed · 61-69, M
Ok. Lie to yourself. Your guy should be pissed you want to spend time with another man.
I would never overlook it, and would run from you fast.
But maybe your man is stupid and likes to look a fool.
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Haha lie to myself? That's ludicrous. xD Your words poorly portray the wisdom you should have gained through time respective to your age. My man is at a level in life beyond you in maturity. In contrast to him, you do not understand what it means to really trust your partner. We have a strong foundation built on trust. He knows very well I won't cheat on him or betray his feelings. Sadly, I guess you don't trust your partner enough to hang out with another guy. Guess you're the controlling and easily jealous type huh?

Also, you do realize you're doing me a big favor by running away right? You are so insecure and don't even trust me enough to hang out with another friend without being so suspicious? Man, don't treat women like a prisoner to you, a warden. They're allowed to hang out with other friends. Based on your mindset, your relationships sound fragile due to the lack of trust.

My man is wiser than you, a fool who can ever begin to realize. :)
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[c=#BF0080]NO[/c]
patkaren1717 · 36-40, M
What do you mean by Hanging Out?
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@patkaren1717: Movies he said.
patkaren1717 · 36-40, M
@Cityyy: A movie is OK as long as it does;nt lead to anything more.
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I would go with your heart on this one
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You should do him.
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zombyxnerd · M
[c=#BF0000]HELL NO[/c]

 
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