Would this bother you in a relationship?

Absolutely not. Why on earth would I want to be with someone who airs out our dirty laundry like no they can get out of my life doing shit like that. It's already bad enough that people are nosy, don't know how to mind their business and they all have opinions on the situation. So meanwhile they're going off and telling people your business, in the future those people won't have any respect for either of you or your relationship. So no. I couldn't do it.

I would be pretty upset, but I would talk to (in my case it would be a her) about it and try to actually come to an agreement of sorts of how the story really was and have (her) tell the amended story to those people so that they didn't look at me so badly. Personally though, if I'm with someone I really care about I care much more what they think of me than what everyone else thinks of me.

I would be bothered by anything against me, but being separated, they probably didn't think they would be with you again so it didn't matter who they told or what.

Well if we got back together well then maybe it was meant to be, I a fight there are three sides your said my side and the truth.

hell NO! and if the friends he told just believed his side and judged you as the villain..they could fek off too

They have told an unspoken trust to others. You dont need that kind of person in your life

That stuff should be private, and he needs new friends who won't report back to you.

Was it your fault?
Did he/she lie tip everyone to make you look bad?

Sounds like time to hit eject to me.

I have been there before

you deserve better

move on