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what should i do? my boyfriend is shy and a little nerdy. he has one friend, but his friend takes advantage of him all the time. from

Giving him money, buying him cigarettes , driving him places. Because his friend wont get a job.. I've told my bf that his friend is taking advantage of him. But he says that he's the only friend he has. Please help.😢
melissa001
51-55, F
29 replies 39 views Apr 16, 2017
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bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M Best Comment
He'll only leave him once he does something truly terrible like stealing or something.... I don't think there's any other way. ʅʕ•ᴥ•ʔʃ
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melissa001 · 51-55, F
Thanks for commenting.
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SW-User
Very big mistake to get between a man and his only friend. If you've pointed out the obvious, you just have to let them do their thing. If the boyfriend is satisfied with things as they are, so be it.
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melovemycats · 26-30, F
Aww, that's sad. I'm not sure how I can help :(
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Vivaci
Ask him to watch The Suits. Men get it only when they see it graphically.
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
@Vivaci: Id rather be true to myself. Ride tall in the saddle and alone anyday darlin then sell out and be a beiber haired frat boy in topsiders.
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Vivaci
@ReaperofTime: Good thinking! People always criticize the originals, then turn around and copy them. So don't worry too much.
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
@Vivaci: I never do. Old saying. If you arent family. Feeding me. Financing me or F***ing me. Wtf cares lol
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
Why date a mansy. ...oh wait. Its the new trend.
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
@melissa001: But true. Im sure hes a nice lad. But if he cant even stand up to a leech ....what happens when shit REALLY hits the fan. He needs a backbone or the door
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melissa001 · 51-55, F
Well I agree with that. But ill never find anyone else☹
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
@melissa001: thats why. If you BELIEVE IN YOU you will attract what you project. If you have yur life together. Value yourself. Others will too
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
Just kill the friend tbh
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bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M
............. I like the way you think. ┬┴┬┴┤ᵒᴥᵒᶅ
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@bearinthebigbluehouse: I like how I think too
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nedkelly · 61-69, M
HE IS A BUM dump him now
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melissa001 · 51-55, F
No need to comment anymore, he broke up with me last might
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ReaperofTime · 46-50, M
He didnt deserve you. Friggin wuss
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melissa001 · 51-55, F
But now I'm so lonely. He was my only bf ever.
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urbancowboy · M
Friends don't take advantage of each other, perhaps your bf can be around some better individuals
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benbailey50 · 70-79, M
My thought is to dump him. Find some one who is more interested in you.
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melissa001 · 51-55, F
No one is interested in me sadly
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Ynotisay · M
You're not his Mom. He can make his own decisions about his friends.
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SW-User
I also buy alcohol sometimes for my friends. no big deal. lol.
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