What if you just don't want to be in a relationship like your parents so much that you just avoid it all together?

But you still get butterflies for people. You go back and forth because the feeling of butterflies takes over a little bit but not enough for you to start a relationship. You just can't stop thinking about them.

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sensualbilez · F

Butterflies when you are about to see a person is what a relationship is about. The comfort that all you want to do is please impress and be with that person. Stressful but amazing.

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swirlie · 31-35, F

How did you come to know so much about cowardice, immaturity, insignificance and weakness? Are you speaking from a perspective involving your own personal healing, or are you reiterating something that you once read in a self-help book?

urbancowboy · M

Butterflies are good, maybe you might let your thoughts lead you to finding out more about him. Especially if you only like him as a friend. It might be worth the effort

SW-User

i would say people are immature and lack of wanting to be responsible or wanting commitments or lazy when they dont want relationships.

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SW-User

You're just horny.

swirlie · 31-35, F

You have almost answered your own question! Just because you would like to satisfy those butterfly cravings every once in a while, doesn't mean that you actually have to embark upon a relationship per se with anyone! Relationships carry way too much expectation to be of valid relevance today.

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