How do I appear more ambitious to the girl I like.

lol.

@Razoreye001: You managed to graduate. Kudos for that, at least.

@LucyRocks: Yeah, and she's still working on college too. She was a few years behind me.

@NearMiss: Yes, it is. So many people do NOT help others actively, or even care enough to go that extra mile. A man can work hard to further his education and career. But he should want to do those things on his own.

So it's an excuse?

@Razoreye001: Of course it is just an excuse.. If she doesn't like you she doesn't like you.

@Razoreye001: Yes, when a woman likes a man, she doesn't make excuses, she wants that man even if she doesn't know why she wants him.. he could have the worst looks or appearance or job, but she wants him...

So when she's telling you, I don't want you because of your lack of ambition..

She's TELLING YOU.. I'm your FRIEND.. and that's all I'll ever be..

She feels awkward, as you have feelings, that she doesn't...

do I need to go on?

@Razoreye001: no offence, but why stand by a closed door, when othe ropen doors beckon

Yeah, but he claims cuz he doesn't show ambition...

@buddyhally: I don't really have many options.

does that really work.