Alright let's throw this into the mix. If he's liking smutty instagram pics and talking to them would it make you uncomfortable that they are "friends"?
@WanderLustChick: If you tell him you're uncomfortable with him doing something, and he keeps doing it, then he clearly doesn't care about your feelings or [i]you[/i]. If he's flirting with another woman you should probably toss him aside. If he's unwilling to show you the conversations, he probably has things to hide. It's not that complicated
People Usually cheat when they start having feelings for someone else..couldnt you associate getting to know someone and starting a friendship can quickly lead to something else? It's like opening a door to me.
I believe everybody has their own boundaries in regards to cheating. I believe that if it makes you feel uncomfortable, that is not a good sign - may it be an overbearing nature of jealousy or actually provoking behaviour from his side. Try to sort it out with him at least, and communicate properly. Trust is the number one rule in a relationship.
I literally talked to a guy about it. Asked to see the conversation and the response I got was him saying I had to trust him and two minutes later he smashed his phone in a million pieces...
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@WanderLustChick: Find someone better.
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talking no.. cant limit people form socializing but how they socializing yeah can end up cheating. who they socialize with can be kind of crossing a line. if they get flirtatious with girls yeah. if they get sexual then yeah if they know a girl is a certain way and they like socializing with them that can be troublesome.. i kind of dont trust people on social media for bf/gf most of the people on social media just fool around with ungodly number of people.
Entirely dependent on the conversation. As a default no. If he is: fantasizing sexually with them, arranging to physically cheat with them, declaring his love for them, and/or sending/receiving nude photos then yes.
If he is holding a platonic conversation/carrying on a platonic friendship then not at all.
... is it cheating for a girl to talk to guys? I can't imagine it would be. it seems like it'd be a 'doing things you'd be upset if the other person did' sort of thing.
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No, it is only cheating if they are involved in a sexual act. Chatting is more innocent because there is no face to face contact
I would say it depends on what they're talking about really and who she is to him. His sister and talking about family things? That's fine. A coworker and talking about work stuff? Sure. Some stranger and about things he doesn't want you to see? Problem!
@WanderLustChick: Some guys who are married,Still flirt to see if they got it. But if your man is truly your man. He should only love you. But if you are safe in your relationship. You should know. He has only eyes for you.
Depends on the agreement he has with his partner. If he's not saying anything he wouldn't share with her, and would be okay with his [b]partner[/b] speaking with guys on social media, then, no.
@allygator18: Lovely, but again, just because one person (or several) have ended up cheating after becoming friends online does not mean everyone will. That would be like saying just because one father screwed his daughter every dad out there wants to.