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I am falling for my best friend, and they dont reciprocate

How to get over it? I cant stop talking to them cz its not their fault they don't like me. I try to talk as less as possible though, but its not working. I am sad all the time. M losing my only confidant.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Distance yourself, at least for a while. You'll get over it faster if you don't have to interact with him/her daily.
Bbgv14 · 31-35, F
I am trying. But we work together. And spend most of our days together. I did try to keep to myself. But I did end up slipping
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@Bbgv14: Do whatever you can to change things. Get a transfer to another department. And find a new hobby that takes you out of town on weekends or find some other way to distance yourself. Don't spend time with someone who doesn't care as much as you do.

If you can't do that, then have a talk and explain how you feel. Tell him/her that if you go on seeing him/her, you will be interested in taking it to the next level.
Bbgv14 · 31-35, F
@greenmountaingal: yeah.. I have had that talk, almost. If I tell him that, he would stop talking to me. For sure. I am not sure I would be able to handle that either. I cant handle conflicts, or such. I would rather wr grow apart somehow. I hope that made sense
Starlight016 · 36-40, F
😢 🤗
Bbgv14 · 31-35, F
😭
Starlight016 · 36-40, F
Don't cry.. :(
I totally understand how you feel. Try to not talk or see him. Time will heal you even though we don't know how long will it be...
But be strong.. because we don't have other choice 🤗

 
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