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Could you live with someone with who you know there will be some limitations ?

As im disabled since few years now. I started fresh relationships with really cool girl some weeks ago and it goes well for now but i have the feeling that im gonna limit her in somes ways... i need help quite often but i dont want to be assited by my half ...
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F Best Comment
I'm sure she thinks you're worth it.
Haftez · 36-40, F
you surely right it might be my defense to not feel in situation where i could be rejected...
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
Exactly
Haftez · 36-40, F
well time will say... thank you for your words :)

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Haftez · 36-40, F
yes ofc but you may not able to realize it at first imo and i dont want to be limitation to her the day she would do something i cant... its weird feeling..
Thewhiterabbit46x2 · 41-45, M
I can identify with how you feel, and while I definitely agree with all the comments thus far I think it's important to mention that your feelings are valid and they can be present in people who may have a different type of disability. Acknowledge your feelings and communicate them. She will be able to tell you how she feels better than we can. I'm certain she will tell you that it doesn't matter to her, but push past that, talk about the things that may become annoying or troublesome, so she's aware of the things that you're sensitive to. We are going to annoy our partners at some point, probably more than we realize, but that's life. We stay in relationships because that person matters more than the sum total of things that bother us.

I hope this helps.

Best,

The Rabbit
nedkelly · 61-69, M
DID you ever think she may limit you
Haftez · 36-40, F
no at all :)
SINAI · T
We'll make it work.
Haftez · 36-40, F
yes for now ^^
SW-User
I'm sure if she loves you nothing will stop her helping you if and when needed
finding the right person to be in your life is very hard. I know my self what it is like
Happyguy123 · 46-50, M
I'm sure if its meant to be you're both get through it
Mmiker · 46-50, M
It’s been almost a year now. How has this relationship been for you?
MasterLee · 56-60, M
No bring disabled is not necessarily a turn off
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wuiop2 · 41-45
In a word, absolutely. :)

 
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