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Amazing in bed but an awful partner. Would you stick around until you find a better option?

Gingerbreadspice · F Best Comment
Yes if it was only casual and all we did was have sex when we met but no if I was looking for a relationship or a partner to make me happy for a while.

PrettyGurl24 · 26-30, F
Sort of in a similar situation only the sex isn't all that but he's a good partner. But I am dying for some good sex for once.
PrettyGurl24 · 26-30, F
@SeductivePrincess: No. He wants to and wants more kids but I don't. I still love him but forever isn't promised.
SeductivePrincess · 31-35, F
@PrettyGurl23: so will you dump him to get great sex?
PrettyGurl24 · 26-30, F
@SeductivePrincess: Well with how the guys are in my city, I'd say no. If I'm meant to be with someone else in the future then it'll happen.
AlienZipper · 61-69, M
No, because you can't spend your whole life in bed...
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
That's why I said till a better option comes along
AlienZipper · 61-69, M
I wouldn't wait that long. Life's too short to waste time with someone like that. No matter how great the sex is. Save all that for the right person.
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SW-User
I wouldn't even consider an awful partner
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
I'm somewhat demi-sexual, so my opinion might be skewed from most people's, but to me that sounds incredibly unpleasant, not to mention narcissistic.
SeductivePrincess · 31-35, F
what does demi - sexual mean?
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
It means that for me, sex for the sake of sex is unpleasant and pointless. Intimacy - the actual definition, not the euphemism - is the only thing that actually matters to me. I'm not completely demi-sexual though - I guess the best way to put it is that for sexual things to actually arouse me, they have to involve genuine intimacy and openness in a way that they often don't. There has to be a dropping of boundaries and a sharing of self that has nothing to do with just fucking.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
Not for long.. it would become too difficult to deal with. I would feel frustrated and just disappointed in myself - sex is great, but not that great. FWB means FRIENDS... LOL if we coudln't even do that - then no
Adogslife · 61-69, M
That would depend on the frequency of sex and if she's crazy or not. Crazy is a sex killer. Good sex, I'd wait.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
Not crazy, just hot and cold a lot
Adogslife · 61-69, M
That would depend on the importance of sex to you, Adelh. You know that. 😐
Madelenie · 26-30, F
No way, I won't get turned on by an awful person anyway.
Madelenie · 26-30, F
Awful, bad, same thing to me
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Marshmallow: I'm saying he's a good person but he can't make relationships work even though he tries
Madelenie · 26-30, F
@Adelh91: Aw what a shame...But still, that turns me off a bit already because it's sad
mrmoose · 70-79, M
mrmoose · 70-79, M
@Adelh91: it's better to have someone to cuddle up with
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Adogslife: he's 11 years older than me. I won't go any older than that
Adogslife · 61-69, M
@Adelh91: makes sense. You're quite young, so I'd hit the dump button and start fresh.

Sex can be taught, personality can't.
Sadie14 · F
If by "awful partner" you mean unfaithful, then no. I don't wanna catch anything. 😅
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
Not unfaithful at all just self centered and distant
Sadie14 · F
Oh, no. I wouldn't. Because if they were an asshole then I'd hate them and I wouldn't want to bang them. 😊
As long as I was actively looking for something better
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
Good point
SeductivePrincess · 31-35, F
Actively? You are too obese to move.
Exmemper · 51-55, M
No make it work as your not just with someone for sex
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
I'm sure some people are
Exmemper · 51-55, M
Yes but morals some don't have
SW-User
I would not .. can't ruin my 23 1/2 hours for 1/2 hour fun
If you can keep your head, you might as well do..
Groofydorkgerdo · 56-60, M
No way in hell I would.
MrSpecialEnough · 22-25, M
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
Hehe 😜
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SW-User
I dunno. I feel like that'd be deceitful. I don't think I could.
SW-User
@Adelh91: I think it's more the 'just hang out here till I find what I want' that's more of a difficulty for me.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@DeadCowboy: well I have a feeling that's what they're doing already
SW-User
@Adelh91: ah. sorry to hear that. I don't think it'd work for me.
sleepyhead · 46-50, M
No I wouldn't. Sometimes it feels like sex is the be all and end all of a relationship, but it isn't.
I dated a guy that was great in bed and a total hottie, but was as boring af
I went out with him for a bit too long I guess
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
It's hard to let go when one aspect is so good I guess
@Adelh91: yea, it did teach me hot isnt everything
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AliceMortem · 31-35, F
True
mrmoose · 70-79, M
life alone is so much worse
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