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What's the worst way you've been broken up with?

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SteelHands · 61-69, M
Out of the blue and totally walled off without explanation.
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No explanation always leaves people in confusion and emptiness
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@Alex1610: Somewhere along the way you have to leave the confusion behind and embrace the pure empty. You can think you might replace it but I don't think I really ever had a chance. It's like it's preordained. I must be assigned to exist by myself until the end now. Every relationship avenue led nowhere so far. I've resigned myself to it all just being a sort of dream. That's all life really is. It's just a lot of people believing in a bunch of temporary illusion. Maybe after I die there's a real world after that. Some of the people I knew will be there with party hats and smiles asking me how I liked the "game." lol
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@Noahkahol: Well, maybe it seems unrealistic to you but it seems very real to some people. I guess your time is up so.....lol
SteelHands · 61-69, M
@Alex1610: When you say that you need to qualify it. My time of being paired with someone was a substantial amount of time. Half a lifetime for some, in fact. Just short of thirty-five years is a long time to clutch at a make believe. My time for that particular sort of existence has passed but until I do, a time of ordinary substantiation replaces it. Matrimony has fewer and fewer people who regard it sacrosanct. As such it's simply becoming less real as time move forward. I don't assume to think anyone can hear just by listening to someone who found proof but can't plug that truth into someone else' head. Forgive me if you mistook my words about nothing likely to improve as fatalistic. If you knew the iron will that I have regarding this subject you might more easily grasp what I share with you here. Two such iron willed people are very, very, very unlikely to get together.

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