Ladies, what are some things that make you feel attractive, loved, appreciated, etc.?

Being told directly, being touched and admired, photos, random phone calls/check-ups/visits, unexpected kisses, having doors held, having a shoulder to lean on, making plans, EFFORT, etc.

It's the little things.

Remembering what I like.
Recalling little moments we had in the past.
Reminding me of what I am to them.
Asking me how I am.
And of course, caring about my sexual pleasure LOL

It sucks to be the one to initiate texting all the time.
It's flattering if he would make me know that I was in his thoughts.
Remembering the tiny details.
Not conforming to the usual stereotypes about a girl.
Making an effort.
Not just buying something that "girls" like but making/ doing something specifically related to what she likes etc.
Being a patient listener
Ready for talking for long hours...
Etc etc....
It depends from girl to girl I think

Non-sexual affection. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against sex, but other attention is valuable too. When you're sitting together on the couch and they run their finger over your collarbone, absentmindedly play with your hair... or just snuggle a little bit closer, sometimes that means the world. Sometimes that's what makes you feel the most loved, wanted, and appreciated.

[c=#4C0073]Being grabbed around the waist and kissed on the neck. Lacing his fingers through mine on a long drive or walk. Making sure I'm comfortable before tending to his needs. Just laying on his chest listening to him talk about his favorite things while he holds me. [/c]

Just being told you are beautiful and sexy

That somebody actually give their time for me.

Flowers

Cakes and concerts...and honesty

Beatings....