Ladies, what are some things that make you feel attractive, loved, appreciated, etc.?

It sucks to be the one to initiate texting all the time.
It's flattering if he would make me know that I was in his thoughts.
Remembering the tiny details.
Not conforming to the usual stereotypes about a girl.
Making an effort.
Not just buying something that "girls" like but making/ doing something specifically related to what she likes etc.
Being a patient listener
Ready for talking for long hours...
Etc etc....
It depends from girl to girl I think