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Have you ever experienced harassment after rejecting someone's romantic advances?

Did you feel further validated in your initial instinct to reject them? Were you open to entertaining them out of guilt? How did you handle it?
When I was very young and thought reason worked with everyone. He proposed after a half-dozen dates, I gently declined, and eventually my father had to make him go away.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
@Mamapolo2016 Thank you 🤗
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@Mamapolo2016 I wish my dad had been like yours!
@SW-User I wish everybody's dad had been like mine. 🤗
Piper · 61-69, F
Yes, someone I was briefly involved with. He would sit outside my home, come into my place of business to glare, and leave really nasty and threatening messages on my answering machine.
I didn't need to feel any further validated for having ended the relationship, but that behavior sure would have done it, if I had.

There have been a couple of other instances, but none as [i]harrassing[/i] as that time.
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I was young and didn't know what to do, but yes -- was stalked a few times because of turning guys down, and once threatened with harm.

I did relent one time (and lived to regret it forever) because the guy convinced me that I had 'led him on'. NEVER fall for this one!
Solana · 36-40, F
I had a guy that would follow me in his car. When I first met my husband I called him and he told me to drive to him when I got there he was with two of his friends nothing happened he just drove away but never followed me again.
It's a shame...the type of treatment some guys feel comfortable subjecting a woman to, but wouldn't dare show the slightest sign of disrespect to another man.@Solana
Solana · 36-40, F
@AnonymouslyYours lol probably because he was afraid he’d get his ass kicked
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I've done both,

I wished I had rejected them and that's it.
... Romantic and sexual.
JupiterDreams · 31-35
It happened a couple times... I then knew I'd made the right choice
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
Yes a whole lot of times. People can be very nasty when you reject them.
Nayla · 51-55, F
If someone harassess you after you tell them you're not interested, this validates the fact they are crazy. Block their number. Do not talk to them.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Oh yeah, many times. A lot of dudes just can't handle rejection.
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@DearAmbellina2113 Is this comment about me?
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I don't know you.
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@DearAmbellina2113 Ok, that sounds like a rejection...
Men after u reject them
[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQ7-THSobD4]
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On here ,yes years ago
Wateribbon · 26-30
Yes, I have. It definitely confirmed to me that I’d made the right decision and I wasn’t even open to [b]speaking[/b] to them after that. I felt no guilt about completely cutting them out of my life.
Exactly. One of the grossest experiences is interacting with someone who feels entitled to your time and attention before even getting to know you.@bijouxbroussard
wackidywack · 22-25
brilliant question
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Yes and then the guy started stalking me and I had to get the police involved.
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