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I don't know what to do

I been with this guy for over a year now and I am beginning to lose my feelings for him,
We wanted to get married and have babies but now I don't even know if I want to talk to him anymore,
It's makes me sad thinking that I might have wasted a year of my life and time on him, he still says he loves me and that he wants me, but I don't know if I want him anymore. I became a robot I just repeat the same scenario everyday!! I am pretty educated and smart I could have met someone else in that time but I made my life revolve around him and now I feel it's going to be over if he doesn't change.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
A year is nothing. Think of 30-50 years being miserable. This is only a blip.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@Keepitsimple what happened to you?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I got pregnant so at least be safe while you sort it out. It’s no joke. Good luck to you. 😉@Collegegirl23
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
Thanks good luck to you too @Keepitsimple
You have already figured it out ... and made your decision ... time to move on
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
But what about the love?@questionWeaver
@Collegegirl23 If there was love ... you would not be measuring the feelings.

If you had love ... you would not be considering it a waste
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@questionWeaver ugh you are right
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
If you have lost interest in him, then now is the time to move on. Too many people go ahead with marriage convincing themselves things will change and then casually and recklessly break their marriage vows for convenience.

Perhaps you should have a serious conversation with him to find out what he's thinking and to let him know how you are feeling.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
He won't understand he doesn't like to talk about sad things @MarkPaul
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@Collegegirl23 I think you know what you should do then.
SW-User
If he has done something to make you want to stop talking to him, best let him go before you waste a lifetime on him!
Londonn · 36-40, M
wasted towards what? true love? marriage? babies? no offense but I hate when people call relataionships a waste
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
When he destroys it yes @Londonn
Londonn · 36-40, M
@Collegegirl23 well than tell how he destroyed it.. with what you wrote I felt like you are a novelty seeker and he is not fun for you anymore.. or whatever
It's not waste. It's a learning experience.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
But I love him or at least that's what I think @Spoiledbrat
but if you love him why do you not want to talk to him? @Collegegirl23
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@Spoiledbrat cause talking to him makes me depressed
megrose · 56-60, F
How long have you been feeling this way? Sounds like you need to take a break .
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@megrose I do need a break
Lilymoon · F
He won't change. You're best to walk away. 🤷‍♀️
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
I can't it's not so easy @Lilymoon
Lilymoon · F
@Collegegirl23 well at least put off your wedding plans
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
@Lilymoon it is off for now
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Thats just how relationships work for some people I guess, wait some time and you lose all your feelings.
Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F
I can't lose him he is all I got@MartinTheFirst
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
@Collegegirl23 then you have nothing?
SW-User
Sadly I also wasted 18 months, when you come home 1 day to a letter telling you they thanks you for a place to stay, food, car, etc. They had moved back to their country & family now they have finished their degree at Uni.

Hurt cuts deep & it takes years to trust again
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
If you have lost the interest then get out now while it’s easier.

 
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