How does this sound?
Hi ***, it was really nice to meet you today and I had a good time & great conversation, but unfortunately I didn't feel the spark. Just wanted to to be upfront and not waste your time.
22-25, M
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GiftedGeekGuy · 41-45, M
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Penny · 46-50, F
id suggest just ghosting her. shell get the picture
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Penny · 46-50, F
@SW-User a different post he made not too long ago
somedude15 · 22-25, M
@SW-User she's actually right about that (my last post). She looked nothing like her pictures, she was very much overweight, had a little mustache(I understand some women are hairier than others but still), and was grunting a lot while eating. I wasn't attracted at all even though I still stayed (conversation was great). I felt bad but I know that our lifestyles would definitely not be compatible. I'm a fitness nut and I like to take care of myself no matter how busy I get.
SW-User
And that's fair. If she's fat and that simply isn't your thing, no need to drag things any further than they need to. You don't have to mention her physical appearance here, the aim isn't to hurt someone's feelings (That's why we don't ghost) but if she prods, let her know her physical appearance just isn't what you're looking for. How she takes that is up to her.@Penny @somedude15
I don't see any need to be that direct. I'd send everything before the 'but'. if something is said about a second, make an excuse. if there's another attempt after that, then send everything after the but.
somedude15 · 22-25, M
@stound I already sent it. At least I was honest
uncleshawn · 41-45, M
I think you should put the person's name instead of asterisks.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
Perfect