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Ladies, would you understand if a guy wasn't ready for sex yet?

Like say you come home from a date and suggest sex, but he just doesn't feel comfortable with it at the time yet.
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marsbar · F
Yes, I would totally understand, & I would talk to him to find out why he feels that way. I’d use it as an opportunity to get to know him.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar For me, it just didn't feel right just then. I wanna make prom night the night.
marsbar · F
@JimFarris16 Oh you’re still young. Don’t fall for that prom night fantasy that so many teenagers do. It’ll happen for you when it feels right, prom night or not.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar Oh, thanks. I'm a sucker for fantasies lol, I'm a big fan of romance which is probably why.
marsbar · F
@JimFarris16 You’re a romantic. There’s nothing wrong with that.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar Some of my friends think it makes me girly lol.
marsbar · F
@JimFarris16 No, it doesn’t. Don’t give into peer pressure. Just do you.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar I do feel like I'm falling deeper and deeper in love though and am getting to the point where I'm comfortable with expressing it physically.
marsbar · F
@JimFarris16 Good. That’s the way it should be. For a lot of teens your age, they get into the physical first, & the emotions afterwards, if that happens. So often times, teens confuse love & lust.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar Yeah, I used to consider saving myself for marriage even, but I don't think I can wait that long lol.
marsbar · F
@JimFarris16 I give props to people who can do that. It’s a very difficult thing to do at this time & age.
JimFarris16 · 18-21, M
@marsbar Well one, because I don't think I can wait and two, we don't desire to be parents anyway.