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How long after a breakup do you mention and/or make disparaging & insulting comments about your ex?

JacksonBlue · 31-35, M
Never. If you call her a cow, gues what...you just dated a cow.
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
@JacksonBlue exactly
reflectingmonkey · 51-55, M
never, its very immature, also people should take responsibility for their choices, if your ex was that bad then you suck at choosing partners. so the more time you spend saying how stupid your ex was you're also saying how stupid you are for having chosen that person AND how stupid you are for being unable to let go and move on.
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Adogslife · 61-69, M
Never really. Just because we broke up doesn’t mean she’s a bad person. If she was, it’s unlikely we’d have been together in the first place.

My divorce was awful. My ex is still basically a kind person though. There’s no reason to disparage her, just simply acknowledge the reasons.
SW-User
@Adogslife 💯
Deadish · 31-35, M
Seems petty and like something someone who isn’t over a relationship would do.
After the door hits them in the asssss.....😅
SW-User
I don’t, unless it’s an ex that I have every reason to detest, in which case the insulting process starts right away during and after the breakup.
Mindful · 56-60, F
I’m immature, and an idiot and have terrible judgement when it comes to men. The disparaging remarks begin as soon as I realize what I’m observing is a deeply embedded pattern that is like a thorn in my side. I acknowledge everything good first, but repeat if the negative trait is affecting how we get along, I repeat it to myself until I’m convinced I should just leave/break up.”someone cheating and turning” gay, and becoming “wee hours gamer thru the night” didn’t work for me. Stupid choices. Great people. Just stupid of me.
Magenta · F
I don't, unless they continue to do so to me, endlessly. 😒
I never even start making insulting or disparaging comments.
until you find a new one obvz..
Never... move on
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
Depends. Sometimes T minus 1 seconds
I don’t, generally. I chose him, so it would reflect more on my bad judgment.

 
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