I don't know what to feel

What would you feel if you're the one who's working for 1 and half year and providing and your partner is unemployed and you don't complain that time and force him to work or what and you're just understanding partner but when he got a job he compares it to your job. Like his job is delivering and he is either delivering in a very hot weather or raining. He compares it to your job because you're working in an office. He says like his job is not easy working in a hot weather and makes you feel like he's more tired and your job is easy. I am working 11 hours a day and it is not easy I am tired working and just want to rest but I can't because I have responsibilities. I never complaint before but now he is working he just makes me feel bad I don't know.

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Viper · M

Tell him to shut up and get an office job if he likes it so much.

I currently got an office job, and honestly, I very very much miss my non- office job, getting to move around and not have to think as much even though it was much much much more physically demanding, I enjoyed the physical aspects.

Sounds like he can't think of others perspectives either because he doesn't know or never experienced it or you just doesn't care.

Also sounds like he might be lazy or doesn't know the meaning of true work.

I might try to do an online poll of which is worse, Office job or non-office job, and if it agrees with me, then show him.

Assuming you can show him one of your online profiles lol but I assume y'all might be in face book together or something.

Sounds like it's all about him and his pains and he's not thinking of others right now.

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

I know what I feel about all this which is that the guy doesn't apperciate what he has especially since the gender roles are pretty reeversed here which I would honestlydo I don't know what kind of horrible things to have myself I'd probably shock myself at how ruthless I could be to obtain it.

I am struggling with my own startup

and while it is succceeding honestly I'd prfer to just make the dough to hire a maid service because I know shes working.

and if I DID have to do housework even still at least it'd be minimal with some hired help.