Is nosiness an unattractive quality in a potential partner?

My initial impression as well! If you're truly living your life and doing something with it, you typically don't spend much time or thought investing energy into what others are or aren't doing. @curiosi

I know. A crush I had on someone instantly evaporated once I realized how nosey the person is.@SW-User

@AnonymouslyYours They're like "Hi. Do you work? "
Why you need a loan or what?

@OogieBoogie I'm so sorry Oogs. 🥺
I suppose they weren't honest about the level of commitment they wanted?

@SW-User it wasn't commitment ...it was controll.

20 yeaes worth.

I suppose that actually is some kind if commitment in a way .

@OogieBoogie Yikes!

Agreed. There's a fine line between curiosity and nosiness. A genuinely curious person takes the time to know someone to build a rapport before asking questions of a more intimate nature. One of those instances of not necessarily what you do but how you do it.@bijouxbroussard

@bijouxbroussard I'm with someone like that. That's why I changed my profile etc. My gf is jealous, she thinks I'm flirting all the time. Yes I flirt, buts all in fun. I'm dedicated to her & her only. I'd give my life 4 her.

@DropTopDig I’ve never understood that kind of thing, especially when one has a loyal partner who’s never strayed. There’s a saying that “those constantly checking under beds and in closets, have hidden there themselves”. 🙁

@sspec I guess that you are correct, but then few, if any, are here looking for a prospective partner on this site.😊