Would you marry someone who doesn't like kids?

@TurtlePink Lol, what's wrong? I saw that reaction.

@WendyLopez43 You said "doesn't like kids," not "doesn't want kids." There's a difference. I love kids but I'm ok not having any. They're a lot of work.

@quitwhendone I know, I wasn't arguing with you.

@Carazaa my husband is constantly threatening to eat our pets and says that they don't have feelings.

@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere That's terrible. Maybe he is jealous. Go up and hug him and tell him that he is your favorite pet! (Dogs have more intense feelings than humans because their amygdala is larger. They get jealous, and feel deep loneliness if we leave them alone in a yard all day and we don't let them come and cuddle at night. They get depressed if we hit them, and they want to be with us, and will be [i]very[/i] obedient if they feel loved)

@WendyLopez43 have you seen him complain about other people or is he somewhat agreeable with others?

Absolutely! Kids get in the way of peaceful quiet times. Movie time. Private time. Lol. Yep. (For the sake of not being persuasive I will leave out the benefits of kids) I FBI k the hardest thing about not having kids will be having to answer the question “why don’t you want kids?”

@Mindful He's agreeable, and also I just don't think either one of us could handle all the responsibility. I don't think I could with stuff like schooling. Not to sound selfish, but I kinda just wanna focus on us.

@WendyLopez43 it’s not selfish. It’s being honest. And if you have found some you can love and be loved by, that actually is pdecent, that’s sounds good to me. It’s never selfish to be true to yourself. But also be open to the fact that as people age, things change. And someday HE may want kids, lol. Someday YOU may want kids. Then regret it or never regret it. Who knows, but as you grow, you will find yourself S’s changing. What matters is that you get thru those changes together. When you decide you go or do things against the other persons will, without consideration, or having agreed to something whether it’s spending time together or apart... ignoring the other person or being dishonest, is what ruins a relationship. If you both honestly don’t want kids, you are lucky to have found each other! being yourself, IS being your best. If you want to “help” kids, help your own family and babysit every now and then. Or sponsor their team shirts or fundraisers. You don’t have to have kids. Oh but do plan for retirement!!!!!!

@Nobody00 How come?

@WendyLopez43 I am into kids... how will I live with someone 24/7 who is against. Do you imagine that life???HELL marriage N.O. no. It's either we are doing SAME shit together...or no sh...at all. Period.

@Nobody00 I understand, I like kids but I wouldn't wanna raise any, I think my partner not liking kids would be okay with me.

@ianR0ckwell Sounds like he's living the life to me.

@ianR0ckwell Does he truly love his wife?

@WendyLopez43 yes

@WendyLopez43 marriage doesn't necessarily mean kids.

Hell, I never married and had kids and lived with a man jist like a marriage 🤷‍♀️

@OogieBoogie I'm aware, I would just prefer a child free marriage.

@WendyLopez43 and that's a good thing if that's what you want.


We should all be free to choose our own lifestyle choices of partnered life (or not) with whatever style of family we choose, big or no🤷‍♀️