Would you take back your Ex if she cheated on you a couple of times and caused you so much pain and its years were apart 10 years

@Mindful I dont know that being honest but a few years ago I thought and got a sense she was in serious pain and wanted to talk to me. I was 25 and she was 19 and we were together 4 years and I found out she cheated on me but she was young so I couldn't take away her freedom at that age . I never had a ball and chain around her .

@riseofthemachine so she doesn’t know you knew? Just know she might do it again. My rule is “if you get to have sex with someone, let me know so that I can do that too” if I want too

@Tobasco I'm too soft that my problem and if I get tough I ends up get demented in my mind

@plungesponge what do you mean by that ? As in being through it before

@undetermined I dis agree with . When people are you there foolish and as the get old some get mature and then change

@riseofthemachine as you put it some, as maybe some do but a lot of people dont change their stripes tho. even seen too many of my friends spouses cheat on them and the cheater usually just continues to fool around after the divorce.

@riseofthemachine Yes life can be bitter sweet. You deserve to be happy in yourself first & that will attract the right girl. 😊 Hope you find happiness.

@Cutiepi23 I'm happy enough , content I'd should say . Do you think if you took back your ex after what I said people would have a different view of you ? Would you say it would come across desperate?

@riseofthemachine If I took back my ex after what we went through people would think I was crazy. Im happy with my partner I have now. I took my ex back a couple of times but it never worked out we met at 16 married at 20 neither of us had ever dated anyone else. I took him back because I did love him & because we had three children. But still didnt work. I found a new path but it was really difficult for many years being a single mum working etc.
One thing I will say is dont care what others think do what make you happy. 😊